Sohel
May 26, 2008, 06:02 AM
I still get excited whenever he comes to bat, and wait for Eid Al Ashraf to come.
Many people are responsible for the following construct. There are mysterious contradictions, and unrealized potential for undiscovered interests inherent in every personality, and the profile reflects that.
One always has the option of accepting what's in the profile or not, but whatever YOU do, allow me to suggest a bit of creative thinking and free association to relate some of the things to his cricket, and finally -- a grain of salt ... :)
He is known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, he can also be blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything he says personally, because he usually does not mean any harm.
He appreciates living his life in a straightforward and simple manner -- he dislikes social niceties and considers them to be hindrances to real communication.
He has lots and lots of energy and tends to become quite restless if he feels confined. He demands the freedom to do as he chooses -- he must be self- directed or he feels trapped and anxious.
With his abundant energy, he enjoys being outdoors, and he should be attracted to physical exercise or to those forms of sport which can help him burn off some of that excess energy. Very gregarious, he loves to socialize -- his innate enthusiasm livens up any gathering.
Very emotional and sensitive, he has an intuitive understanding of the "vibes" around him. He tends to be quite generous, giving, loving and caring, but only when his own needs for emotional support, love and security have been met. If they are not met, he tends to withdraw into himself and become very insecure and selfish.
His home and family (especially his mother) represent security for him and thus assume a larger-than-life importance. Very sentimental, he has vivid and long- enduring memories of the past. No matter how well adjusted he is, he will always need a secret quiet place of his own in order to feel at peace. Feeding others can give him great pleasure, and he would enjoy being part of a large family.
His feelings are very intense, never superficial. He tends to be either very angry or very sad or completely and totally happy. His moods are deep, extreme and not always completely understood by himself or by those with whom he has to deal.
Emotionally, he tends to prefer to live at the cutting edge of life, pushing his reactions to the ultimate extremes, even if the results are dangerous or upsetting.
He is easily jealous and very suspicious, and requires a great deal of emotional reassurance.
A good detective, he is very curious about deep and mysterious things, especially human nature and motivations. He needs to be careful not to be ruthless, tactless or too overly frank or he will meet with much resistance from others.
He is usually quite convinced that his own ideas are correct and he enjoys trying to persuade others that they are.
At times, he is very stubborn and proud of his beliefs and principles, and he gets very defensive when they are challenged.
He appreciates truth and honesty, and tries to practice it himself and expect it in others. He has good talent for organizing, directing and planning. He delights in being asked for his advice and counsel.
He likes to be very close to other people. He needs emotional support himself and is willing to give it to others. When he feels unloved and insecure, he can be very jealous and possessive.
He is not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest him. His faithful devotion is one of his greatest gifts, but he needs to be careful not to become too dependent on others. He needs to learn to stand on your his two feet and demand his own rights once in a while.
His likes and dislikes are strong and intense, never casual or superficial.
He is known for his persistence and willful obsession. Once he has decided on a course of action, he is unstoppable.
His emotional actions tend to be extreme, although he tries to keep them muted.
He is not quick to anger and would rather do slow burns. And he tends to release his anger as sarcasm or irony. He needs to be better aware of his tendency to hold grudges and to be vengeful.
When he does fight, or release his internal tensions, he does so body and soul -- he becomes totally passionate and his outbursts are awesome to behold, and often disproportionate, but not in his own mind at the time.
He tends to feel that the only results that are worthwhile are the results that are concrete and demonstrable. He distrusts abstract solutions and appreciates measurable achievements.
An excellent organizer and planner, he is optimistic as well as practical and realistic about what can and what cannot happen. Very responsible, he considers it a personal weakness to be wrong about anything. This makes him appropriately cautious.
He is very efficient but tends to be cool and detached.
He tends to release emotional energies only very reluctantly. This is partly due to his fear of what horrible calamity might occur should they be released -- his emotions are terribly complicated and intense.
He needs to try not to repress these energies entirely, however, or he will succumb to negative and destructive forms of compulsive behavior.
He needs to give himself the freedom to look awkward or silly once in a while. The relief he feels will be quite therapeutic and the embarrassment (whether it is real or imagined) will pass quickly.
He and most of his peers have the tendency to think that all ideas, customs and traditions from the past are outmoded and irrelevant. He is attracted to radically new ideas, philosophies and religions that will, hopefully, cause sweeping changes throughout the world.
He and his entire generation are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto.
He will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. He will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."
For his entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.
He will consciously seek out many different contacts with others throughout his life. Many of these will be of very short duration, not necessarily because he’s fickle, but just because he always seems to be more excited by the prospect of meeting someone new rather than prolonging his present relationships.
At any rate, he will learn something new from almost everyone he comes across -- intellectual stimulation is what he craves from others. He will be well known to neighbors and relatives, partly due to his curiosity about what they're doing -- he delights in keeping up-to-date about the latest news.
Other profiles to come, one per week: -
1) AfAh.
2) MaMu.
3) BiZu.
4) Alok.
5) Tamim.
6) Abir.
7) GoBoy.
8) MaMi.
9) Rajib.
You decide who's next ... ;)
Many people are responsible for the following construct. There are mysterious contradictions, and unrealized potential for undiscovered interests inherent in every personality, and the profile reflects that.
One always has the option of accepting what's in the profile or not, but whatever YOU do, allow me to suggest a bit of creative thinking and free association to relate some of the things to his cricket, and finally -- a grain of salt ... :)
He is known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, he can also be blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything he says personally, because he usually does not mean any harm.
He appreciates living his life in a straightforward and simple manner -- he dislikes social niceties and considers them to be hindrances to real communication.
He has lots and lots of energy and tends to become quite restless if he feels confined. He demands the freedom to do as he chooses -- he must be self- directed or he feels trapped and anxious.
With his abundant energy, he enjoys being outdoors, and he should be attracted to physical exercise or to those forms of sport which can help him burn off some of that excess energy. Very gregarious, he loves to socialize -- his innate enthusiasm livens up any gathering.
Very emotional and sensitive, he has an intuitive understanding of the "vibes" around him. He tends to be quite generous, giving, loving and caring, but only when his own needs for emotional support, love and security have been met. If they are not met, he tends to withdraw into himself and become very insecure and selfish.
His home and family (especially his mother) represent security for him and thus assume a larger-than-life importance. Very sentimental, he has vivid and long- enduring memories of the past. No matter how well adjusted he is, he will always need a secret quiet place of his own in order to feel at peace. Feeding others can give him great pleasure, and he would enjoy being part of a large family.
His feelings are very intense, never superficial. He tends to be either very angry or very sad or completely and totally happy. His moods are deep, extreme and not always completely understood by himself or by those with whom he has to deal.
Emotionally, he tends to prefer to live at the cutting edge of life, pushing his reactions to the ultimate extremes, even if the results are dangerous or upsetting.
He is easily jealous and very suspicious, and requires a great deal of emotional reassurance.
A good detective, he is very curious about deep and mysterious things, especially human nature and motivations. He needs to be careful not to be ruthless, tactless or too overly frank or he will meet with much resistance from others.
He is usually quite convinced that his own ideas are correct and he enjoys trying to persuade others that they are.
At times, he is very stubborn and proud of his beliefs and principles, and he gets very defensive when they are challenged.
He appreciates truth and honesty, and tries to practice it himself and expect it in others. He has good talent for organizing, directing and planning. He delights in being asked for his advice and counsel.
He likes to be very close to other people. He needs emotional support himself and is willing to give it to others. When he feels unloved and insecure, he can be very jealous and possessive.
He is not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest him. His faithful devotion is one of his greatest gifts, but he needs to be careful not to become too dependent on others. He needs to learn to stand on your his two feet and demand his own rights once in a while.
His likes and dislikes are strong and intense, never casual or superficial.
He is known for his persistence and willful obsession. Once he has decided on a course of action, he is unstoppable.
His emotional actions tend to be extreme, although he tries to keep them muted.
He is not quick to anger and would rather do slow burns. And he tends to release his anger as sarcasm or irony. He needs to be better aware of his tendency to hold grudges and to be vengeful.
When he does fight, or release his internal tensions, he does so body and soul -- he becomes totally passionate and his outbursts are awesome to behold, and often disproportionate, but not in his own mind at the time.
He tends to feel that the only results that are worthwhile are the results that are concrete and demonstrable. He distrusts abstract solutions and appreciates measurable achievements.
An excellent organizer and planner, he is optimistic as well as practical and realistic about what can and what cannot happen. Very responsible, he considers it a personal weakness to be wrong about anything. This makes him appropriately cautious.
He is very efficient but tends to be cool and detached.
He tends to release emotional energies only very reluctantly. This is partly due to his fear of what horrible calamity might occur should they be released -- his emotions are terribly complicated and intense.
He needs to try not to repress these energies entirely, however, or he will succumb to negative and destructive forms of compulsive behavior.
He needs to give himself the freedom to look awkward or silly once in a while. The relief he feels will be quite therapeutic and the embarrassment (whether it is real or imagined) will pass quickly.
He and most of his peers have the tendency to think that all ideas, customs and traditions from the past are outmoded and irrelevant. He is attracted to radically new ideas, philosophies and religions that will, hopefully, cause sweeping changes throughout the world.
He and his entire generation are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto.
He will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. He will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."
For his entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.
He will consciously seek out many different contacts with others throughout his life. Many of these will be of very short duration, not necessarily because he’s fickle, but just because he always seems to be more excited by the prospect of meeting someone new rather than prolonging his present relationships.
At any rate, he will learn something new from almost everyone he comes across -- intellectual stimulation is what he craves from others. He will be well known to neighbors and relatives, partly due to his curiosity about what they're doing -- he delights in keeping up-to-date about the latest news.
Other profiles to come, one per week: -
1) AfAh.
2) MaMu.
3) BiZu.
4) Alok.
5) Tamim.
6) Abir.
7) GoBoy.
8) MaMi.
9) Rajib.
You decide who's next ... ;)