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rashed411
May 15, 2011, 02:24 PM
ok, how do you impress a bangali chick?

Nadim
May 15, 2011, 02:35 PM
geche....i mean preme porche Rashed miah.

Wait for Orphy and Zee...

goru
May 15, 2011, 03:03 PM
:facepalm:

rashed411
May 15, 2011, 03:17 PM
im serious lol

Ajfar
May 15, 2011, 03:29 PM
you take a pen and write her initial in your arm that will do the trick.
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rashed411
May 15, 2011, 03:54 PM
you take a pen and write her initial in your arm that will do the trick.
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rly lol?

Nadim
May 15, 2011, 03:57 PM
Sing this song when u see her " ooo priya, o priya, tumi kuthay" ...might work:)
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roman
May 15, 2011, 04:01 PM
start watching some bangla movies :)...

AsifTheManRahman
May 15, 2011, 04:02 PM
<iframe width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EYcXBDlaK7E" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

rashed411
May 15, 2011, 04:20 PM
start watching some bangla movies :)...

hell no... she doesnt like bangla movies i asked her.

comegetsom
May 15, 2011, 04:47 PM
As a bengali girl, I can assure you that all bengali girls are not impressed by the same things. What works for her might not work for someone else. There is no universal answer :(. Try to find out more about her personality and then you'll know what you need to do.

Or why not just be yourself? If she doesn't appreciate you for who you are then she isn't worth your time.

rashed411
May 15, 2011, 05:11 PM
As a bengali girl, I can assure you that all bengali girls are not impressed by the same things. What works for her might not work for someone else. There is no universal answer :(. Try to find out more about her personality and then you'll know what you need to do.

Or why not just be yourself? If she doesn't appreciate you for who you are then she isn't worth your time.

thanks for some real advice! I guess I'll do me :-p

AsifTheManRahman
May 15, 2011, 05:50 PM
What the heck! No dude, don't do you, do this guy:
<iframe width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/3-V17SMq3pE" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

rashed411
May 15, 2011, 05:56 PM
What the heck! No dude, don't do you, do this guy:
<iframe width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/3-V17SMq3pE" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

haha... im trying to impress her not scare her away.

Bancan
May 15, 2011, 06:09 PM
As a bengali girl, I can assure you that all bengali girls are not impressed by the same things. What works for her might not work for someone else. There is no universal answer :(. Try to find out more about her personality and then you'll know what you need to do.

Or why not just be yourself? If she doesn't appreciate you for who you are then she isn't worth your time.

Hey there, How you doing ;)?

ialbd
May 15, 2011, 06:49 PM
still no reply from Orphy or Zee.... !!!!

we are waiting.....

Nafi
May 15, 2011, 06:57 PM
Bengali girls are very easily impressed...

Zeeshan
May 15, 2011, 08:10 PM
ok, how do you impress a bangali chick?

not impress upon?

rashed411
May 15, 2011, 08:28 PM
not impress upon?

me cutting classes to be with her during her free period... lol. But im workin on it tho.

Chok
May 15, 2011, 08:28 PM
listen man, I will make it very simple. You need not to impress any girl to get her as your wife. If you have faith in Allah, any situation could lead to the special her. Now, if you are looking for girl friend, then I suggest buddy, such friends are just like leech. They will just suck you down. ok! Now if you madly in love with somebody then I don't know, go to your parents for help.

iDumb
May 15, 2011, 08:53 PM
As a bengali girl, I can assure you that all bengali girls are not impressed by the same things.

"come get some"? what are we getting? alu bhorta? chicken korma? or years of misery?

me cutting classes to be with her during her free period... lol. But im workin on it tho.

why you wanna be with her when she is on her period? That's disgusting.

rashed411
May 15, 2011, 09:19 PM
why you wanna be with her when she is on her period? That's disgusting.

cmon ur not that dumb... :-p

Isnaad
May 15, 2011, 11:06 PM
ok, how do you impress a bangali chick?

This is a hard question to answer. But if you give us a chance, we can practically show you how it works! :E

Bancan
May 15, 2011, 11:11 PM
Now, if you are looking for girl friend, then I suggest buddy, such friends are just like leech. They will just suck you down. ok! .

Well, thats mainly why I date them.

tonoy
May 15, 2011, 11:17 PM
From what I've noticed is that they are quite the flirtatious creature. If you are pro at flirting, then you can practically score any Bengali chick. Also, being loaded with cash helps.

Electrequiem
May 15, 2011, 11:48 PM
Eve-tease till they oblige.

Electrequiem
May 15, 2011, 11:48 PM
Well, thats mainly why I date them.

Where's the "like" button?

Isnaad
May 16, 2011, 12:01 AM
Well, thats mainly why I date them.

Did you take those words literally?
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Sohel
May 16, 2011, 12:09 AM
Being sincere and paraphrasing Tagore still works the best. Example:

"The way I feel about you seems to be my only reality, not just a fleeting sentiment. I want to, but can't stop thinking about you. My feelings for you must be as true as the ultimate truth nestled at the heart of creation."

Warning: you'll sound cheesy when not 100% sincere and that'll backfire.

Bancan
May 16, 2011, 12:23 AM
Did you take those words literally?
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Well what do you think I was saying?

Bancan
May 16, 2011, 12:24 AM
Being sincere and paraphrasing Tagore still works the best. Example:

"The way I feel about you seems to be my only reality, not just a fleeting sentiment. I want to, but can't stop thinking about you. My feelings for you must be as true as the ultimate truth nestled at the heart of creation."

Warning: you'll sound cheesy when not 100% sincere and that'll backfire.

You should also add how this might not work on anyone under 40.

Zeeshan
May 16, 2011, 12:33 AM
...or non-virgin.

Bonglababu
May 16, 2011, 12:37 AM
1. Keep ignoring her. Don't pay much attention to her (as if she is not THAT special). Don't act like "chechra lewis". She will start thinking about you with a positive attitude. She would think, "you got personality and responsibility".

2. Be serious about career/grade. Bengali girls like high GPA/salary. Always try to be studious and kind of "atel". But don't lose the sense of humor on the way, then she will deem you as a nerd. Sometimes girls don't give the final call in favor of nerds.

3. If you aren't serious and not looking for marital (long term)relationship, just for casual flirting, then act like Shahrukh Khan. Be jolly all the time. Praise her most of the time. Dress neat, smell good, use sunglass, look smart.

Always remember "life is like a jazz, so it's better to improvise".
All the best.

comegetsom
May 16, 2011, 02:20 AM
"come get some"? what are we getting? alu bhorta? chicken korma? or years of misery?



It's the first line from that big daddy kane song, "come get some you little bum, i get the cake but you can't get a crum". couldn't fit the first part as my nick so had to settle for comegetsom.

comegetsom
May 16, 2011, 02:21 AM
thanks for some real advice! I guess I'll do me :-p

:up: that's the best approach

Isnaad
May 16, 2011, 03:29 AM
Well what do you think I was saying?

You don't want to know, trust me! :P
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Rabz
May 16, 2011, 04:57 AM
Rashed, you live in Sylhet, i mean in Bangladesh ??

bujhee kom
May 16, 2011, 05:46 AM
Rashed mia bhai, Khita khobor? Ei Obostha tumar? Ei bishoi?
Phorashuna baad dia phiritir jalai moro tumi?

First of all make sure she is Sylhety, otherwise your amma will not approve!

bujhee kom
May 16, 2011, 06:11 AM
Actually Rashed, this is my advice bro.
When you shave your face, shave your chest as well...and keep shaving your chest until you grow some thick chest hair, and walk around at school with your top two buttons open (shirt's, not your pants, capiche?), and wear strong Ator (perfume), and get a fake gold-chain, this will definitely work, it worked for me!

Also how thick is your side-burn/Julphies? Grow an Elvis one quickly.

rashed411
May 16, 2011, 06:36 AM
Rashed, you live in Sylhet, i mean in Bangladesh ??

Nope i live in USA.

rashed411
May 16, 2011, 06:39 AM
Rashed mia bhai, Khita khobor? Ei Obostha tumar? Ei bishoi?
Phorashuna baad dia phiritir jalai moro tumi?

First of all make sure she is Sylhety, otherwise your amma will not approve!

shes from Dhaka but my family dont mind that stuff. I have two grandmas from Dhaka so my some of my uncles are half syelhety half dhakaya :-p

Rifat
May 16, 2011, 07:45 AM
none of the girls i rejected in life were Bangladeshi. so I can't offer much advice. sorry :(

bujhee kom
May 16, 2011, 09:56 AM
On a serious note dear Rashed bhai, I would like you do this. I did exactly what I am telling you to do and this is how today I am very happily married to my beautiful beloved wife.

You will see her (the girl of your interest) in school/library and go near her and release a muffled paad like, "...poooooottt..." then you will say, "oh excuse me apu, did you have diim-bhaji for breakfast?" She will be so amazingly blown away man, if she doesn't fall I mean Lootiye naa porey on the floor...you will tell me and I will change my name@!

roman
May 16, 2011, 10:01 AM
Morale of the story is never ask for advice in BC :)

lamisa
May 16, 2011, 10:05 AM
ok rashed, here's the thing:
do not call her at night if she doesn't approve of it.
don't make it too obvious that u like her, but drop in hints occassionally.
dress up well. dont wear yellow.
put on some very nice perfume and wash ur hair everyday
say that she looks pretty every now and then.
try not to act too macho, that's such a turn off.
take her out for icecream sometimes

MohammedC
May 16, 2011, 10:16 AM
where is mohsin and parisa

Bancan
May 16, 2011, 12:10 PM
You don't want to know, trust me! :P
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I was implying exactly what you were thinking.

rashed411
May 16, 2011, 01:49 PM
ok rashed, here's the thing:
do not call her at night if she doesn't approve of it.
don't make it too obvious that u like her, but drop in hints occassionally.
dress up well. dont wear yellow.
put on some very nice perfume and wash ur hair everyday
say that she looks pretty every now and then.
try not to act too macho, that's such a turn off.
take her out for icecream sometimes

i can do all of that except i think i made it obvious that i like her..

iDumb
May 16, 2011, 02:51 PM
ok rashed, here's the thing:
do not call her at night if she doesn't approve of it.
don't make it too obvious that u like her, but drop in hints occassionally.
dress up well. dont wear yellow.
put on some very nice perfume and wash ur hair everyday
say that she looks pretty every now and then.
try not to act too macho, that's such a turn off.
take her out for icecream sometimes

guys of BC, this is a secret to get Lamisa. Tonoy here is your chance buddy. But the question is can you afford an igloo ice cream?

Isnaad
May 17, 2011, 01:30 AM
i can do all of that except i think i made it obvious that i like her..

How old are you and how old is she? If possible tell us. Ages matter as well in case of 'getting impressed'
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rashed411
May 17, 2011, 06:31 AM
How old are you and how old is she? If possible tell us. Ages matter as well in case of 'getting impressed'
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me 18 she 17

lamisa
May 17, 2011, 09:32 AM
guys of BC, this is a secret to get Lamisa. Tonoy here is your chance buddy. But the question is can you afford an igloo ice cream?

polar for me,thanks! the one that shakiib modelled for is actually very good

lamisa
May 17, 2011, 09:33 AM
btw rashed, don't tell her how much your juta costs!

rashed411
May 17, 2011, 09:51 AM
btw rashed, don't tell her how much your juta costs!

Why not it's expensive...Lol
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lamisa
May 17, 2011, 10:13 AM
^^^ that's the point!!! telling a girl how much ur juta costs is such a turn off! don't show off and brag about ur expensive possessions! if it's actually of some quality, it will show by itself, u don't have to do the talking

Beamer
May 17, 2011, 10:41 AM
ok, how do you impress a bangali chick?

It depends on how far your pan-jorda thuthu travels in the air. If its weak and lands near your feet, you have no chance, but if it travels ten-fifteen feet and lands on the baranda of that neighbor chick from your window, you have her impressed. Hope that works.