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aklemalp
October 4, 2017, 06:50 PM
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I wanted to write something good, something that would take my mind off the problems which I have encountered over the past 24 hours. Problems which I have caused by my own ignorance.

I have no time to explain what it was...

There are some things in life we take for granted, things that are so dear to us that we are blinded by its significance. The mind thinks one thing, the heart thinks another. But there is one constant though: both are influenced by the same thing. The crisp reality of it makes you feel ecstatic. Jumping for joy. A desire to hug someone. Tell someone how you feel about them.

But, you feel this way and the recipient of your hug feels the opposite. Why do you want to hug in the first place? Because there is love, there is happiness, there is joy..., all amalgamated to shine through that smile of yours. You think that it is worth it.

But there is disappointment.


To be continued...

iDumb
October 4, 2017, 10:17 PM
sounds like you got dumped. It happens. Move on.

life is too short...

DinRaat.
October 4, 2017, 10:43 PM
sounds like you got dumped. It happens. Move on.

life is too short...

have an affair.

aklemalp
October 4, 2017, 11:39 PM
sounds like you got dumped. It happens. Move on.

life is too short...

No, nothing like that.

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 07:18 AM
Offtopic: I hate being hugged by guys, desi people by and large do not understand the concept of personal space. If I am sad and pissed you better stay away from me and let me deal with it my way, if you come and hug me you will get your butt kicked, my friends learned that the hard way :lol:

Fazal
October 5, 2017, 08:14 AM
...during periods?

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:24 AM
How about during a divorce, this thread will be very useful.

I need to know how to keep my possessions. :)

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:26 AM
No, nothing like that.

Denial is the first step of getting through a break up.

:big_hug:

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 08:30 AM
...during periods?

?????????

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:31 AM
?????????

Side effects of periods include mood swings.

Don't ask how I know that.

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 08:33 AM
Denial is the first step of getting through a break up.

:big_hug:

Break ups are hard man, it sometimes leaves deep psychological scars, I never had to go through this thank God, but I have seen what it does to people.

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:34 AM
To deal with this I suggest Aklemalp to get into yoga, or a nurumassage.

Heck he might even get a happy ending.

Fazal
October 5, 2017, 08:35 AM
Nah.... only first time its hard... after that you will get used to it. It will be like daal bhat.

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 08:36 AM
Side effects of periods include mood swings.

Don't ask how I know that.

:lol: I know man, everyone knows that, just wanted to know where is Fazal coming from.

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:38 AM
I can see postive vibes coming from this thread already. My spider senses are tingling.

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:40 AM
Good news fella

iDumb
October 5, 2017, 08:40 AM
Offtopic: I hate being hugged by guys, desi people by and large do not understand the concept of personal space. If I am sad and pissed you better stay away from me and let me deal with it my way, if you come and hug me you will get your butt kicked, my friends learned that the hard way :lol:

Are you fat ? There are few guys I know who don't like hug from another guy ... I think it says a lot about the guy who doesn't like it ...

Ok the word is not like ... a real secured man shouldn't feel uncomfortable getting a hug from another guy ...

Regarding personal space I think it's more appropriate when a guy hugs a woman as a greeting /goodbye ..if the relationship is not close ....I find those guys very creepy .

There is handshake ..there is slight head bowing .. there are subtle respectful touch .... but some guys with their full on hug ..with a woman they know by proxy ... annoying as hell

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 08:41 AM
I can see postive vibes coming from this thread already. My spider senses are tingling.

Okay, now stop crawling on that wall :D

iDumb
October 5, 2017, 08:42 AM
Good news fella

She finally pretending to like your hug ? Don't hug ppl who aren't receptive lol


Btw din raat I am starting to enjoy your one liners ...keep it up :)

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:43 AM
Denial is the first step of getting through a break up.

:big_hug:

No break up man.

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:44 AM
Are you fat ? There are few guys I know who don't like hug from another guy ... I think it says a lot about the guy who doesn't like it ...

Ok the word is not like ... a real secured man shouldn't feel uncomfortable getting a hug from another guy ...

Regarding personal space I think it's more appropriate analogy if a guy hugs a woman as a greeting /goodbye ..if the relationship is not close ....I find those guys very creepy .

There is handshake ..there is slight head bowing .. there are subtle respectful touch .... but some guys with their full on hug ..with a woman they know by proxy ... annoying as hell

O really, I hate it when your walking in the streets and a stranger goes in the same direction as you causing confusion

#AwkwardStreetMoments

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:46 AM
No break up man.

Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:46 AM
She finally pretending to like your hug ? Don't hug ppl who aren't receptive lol


Btw din raat I am starting to enjoy your one liners ...keep it up :)

No hugging, it was just an analogy to something far more significant

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:47 AM
Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

What the hell dude? I don't believe in those guys :lol:

We need more positivity, not advice from those scamps and money-grabbers

iDumb
October 5, 2017, 08:48 AM
Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

Don't get carried away ... I like the clever one liners not the disgusting / and visibly insulting ones ...

Aklemalp is trying to Say something serious ... don't get embarrassed

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:48 AM
No hugging, it was just an analogy to something far more significant

Don't hug go straight to second base, girls like boys with clear intentions.

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:49 AM
Don't hug go straight to second base, girls like boys with clear intentions.

No second base, I'm all about the home run.

Aaron Judge...all rise

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:50 AM
Don't get carried away ... I like the clever one liners not the disgusting / and visibly insulting ones ...

Aklemalp is trying to Say something serious ... don't get embarrassed

No insults just some friendly banter.

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:50 AM
No second base, I'm all about the home run.

Aaron Judge...all rise

That's the spirit. Ok I am out good night guys.

Sorry in advance, If i hurt anyones feelings.

One World
October 5, 2017, 08:52 AM
Stephen Covey, told,

1. Be proactive
2. Formulate the end of a project before starting
3. When you start do not start from half way or middle, first thing is first
4. Make sure it is a Win-Win for all parties
5. You want to make me understand something, first try to understand my perspective
6. Remember always whole can be bigger than the sum of portions
7. Do not stop learning and growing about the things you are focused to

Here goes the 7 habits of highly successful people, B+ve

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:53 AM
That's the spirit. Ok I am out good night guys.

Sorry in advance, If i hurt anyones feelings.

Have a good night's sleep.

#positive

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 08:54 AM
Stephen Covey, told,

1. Be proactive
2. Formulate the end of a project before starting
3. When you start do not start from half way or middle, first thing is first
4. Make sure it is a Win-Win for all parties
5. You want to make me understand something, first try to understand my perspective
6. Remember always whole can be bigger than the sum of portions
7. Do not stop learning and growing about the things you are focused to

Here goes the 7 habits of highly successful people, B+ve


Number 3 I feel is the main probably with todays youth, they think of something great, but do not have the integrity to see it through to the end.

iDumb
October 5, 2017, 08:58 AM
Aklemalp Bhai now can please embarrass us all and tell us what's really going on . Were you hugging your mom ? And she didn't like it ? That's the ultimate hurt

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 08:58 AM
Stephen Covey, told,

1. Be proactive
2. Formulate the end of a project before starting
3. When you start do not start from half way or middle, first thing is first
4. Make sure it is a Win-Win for all parties
5. You want to make me understand something, first try to understand my perspective
6. Remember always whole can be bigger than the sum of portions
7. Do not stop learning and growing about the things you are focused to

Here goes the 7 habits of highly successful people, B+ve

Thank you so much for this One World bro:up:

Some good problem-solving strategies that can be traced back to math (Algebra).

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 09:00 AM
Aklemalp Bhai now can please embarrass us all and tell us what's really going on . Were you hugging your mom ? And she didn't like it ? That's the ultimate hurt

I wouldn't like for that to happen.

In the OP, I said that I didn't wanna discuss the details of what happen. I rather would not cross the line of personal and public in this case.

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 09:03 AM
Are you fat ? There are few guys I know who don't like hug from another guy ... I think it says a lot about the guy who doesn't like it ...

Ok the word is not like ... a real secured man shouldn't feel uncomfortable getting a hug from another guy ...

Regarding personal space I think it's more appropriate when a guy hugs a woman as a greeting /goodbye ..if the relationship is not close ....I find those guys very creepy .


I am not fat lol, far from it, spend more time at gym than college. The problem with many of us is we often equate divergence with being something wrong, we get behind our key boards, act shrink and try to find out deep psychological meaning behind the simplest of things. I seriously don't know how you jumped into this conclusion that just cuz I don't feel comfortable hugging people I am not secured.

Personal space has got jack squat to do with gender, I value my privacy and personal space and respect others, my girlfriend knows that, so do my friends and family . Now anyone can write a thesis on my behavioral eccentricity and get a phd online for all I care, I myself and people closed to me are more than okay with my little oddity and imperfections and that is what matters.

Have a good day :)

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 09:06 AM
Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

Not cool bro

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 09:09 AM
Not cool bro

Yea, I think I realise that, didn't mean to be offensive, guess that came out wrong.

Sorry If I offended anyone.

iDumb
October 5, 2017, 09:15 AM
I am not fat lol, far from it, spend more time at gym than college. The problem with many of us is we often equate divergence with being something wrong, we get behind our key boards, act shrink and try to find out deep psychological meaning behind the simplest of things. I seriously don't know how you jumped into this conclusion that just cuz I don't feel comfortable hugging people I am not secured.

Personal space has got jack squat to do with gender, I value my privacy and personal space and respect others, my girlfriend knows that, so do my friends and family . Now anyone can write a thesis on my behavioral eccentricity and get a phd online for all I care, I myself and people closed to me are more than okay with my little oddity and imperfections and that is what matters.

Have a good day :)


I agree with you. And have no desire to talk about your hugging habits. I actually feel disgusted reading/talking about anyones habits .

What I shared was not about you, or anything as facts... just my personal view. ?what divergence, what psychological nonsense? I write one thing, you read another.

Some ppl in beach do not like taking off their shirt despite having great body... there is a feeling of "insecurity"... nothing bad. Whereas all the fat guys go full naked. I feel that for anyone to have a particular dislike for a man hug as opposed to a woman hug has some sort of that "insecurity".. purely my opinion..

if one doesn't liked to be touched, gender shouldn't matter :) u said it.

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 09:17 AM
Touch and hugging was just an analogy :lol:

#transcendental

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 09:26 AM
I agree with you. And have no desire to talk about your hugging habits. I actually feel disgusted reading/talking about anyones habits .

What I shared was not about you, or anything as facts... just my personal view. ?what divergence, what psychological nonsense? I write one thing, you read another.

Some ppl in beach do not like taking off their shirt despite having great body... there is a feeling of "insecurity"... nothing bad. Whereas all the fat guys go full naked. I feel that for anyone to have a particular dislike for a man hug as opposed to a woman hug has some sort of that "insecurity".. purely my opinion..

if one doesn't liked to be touched, gender shouldn't matter :) u said it.

None of us are perfect, we are all fundamentally erroneous some way or the other, these little oddities is what makes us unique and distinctive, I think we both can agree with that and you are of course entitled to your opinion.

Roy_1
October 5, 2017, 09:27 AM
Touch and hugging was just an analogy :lol:

#transcendental

Exactly why I attached that 'offtopic' tag, didn't I?

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 09:34 AM
Exactly why I attached that 'offtopic' tag, didn't I?

Yeah.

It has worn on :)

Let the positive vibes flow my friend:)

Tigers_eye
October 5, 2017, 09:45 AM
Be gracious. Be Humble. Be Grateful to your lord. Do not deny His favors. It is an enormous evil.

This will only help you and no one else, if you only knew. Your Lord is free of need and praise worthy.

Whatever you will be grateful for, your Lord will increase you in that. If you are grateful for your Children, He will make them pious. If you grateful for the house you live in, He can give you a better house. etc.

Have patience and try not to get angry.

Fazal
October 5, 2017, 01:35 PM
Now I am confused. What is this thread all about? Is it an open ended thread? Mother of all threads?


Is it a Free therapy thread?
or is it a religion preaching thread?
Broken heart thread?
or ajaira pechal thread?

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 01:37 PM
Now I am confused. What is this thread all about? Is it an open ended thread? Mother of all threads?

Somehow wanted to write something positive. But other thoughts flooded the mind.


But, you can lend some positive vibes into it. Far away from a mother of all threads

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 01:39 PM
Now I am confused. What is this thread all about? Is it an open ended thread? Mother of all threads?


Is it a Free therapy thread?
or is it a religion preaching thread?
Broken heart thread?
or ajaira pechal thread?

An amalgamation of all of the above, at least that is what it looks like.

Fazal
October 5, 2017, 01:41 PM
oh ok...here is my positive pitch.

if you die today, the rest of the world care less, the world will still move on.

Therefore whatever you feel like doing it, close your eye and just do it....most likely nobody will notice.

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 01:42 PM
oh ok...here is my positive pitch.

if you die today, the rest of the world care less, the world will still move on.

Therefore whatever you feel like doing it, close your eye and just do it....most likely nobody will notice.

Oh yeah, real words. Facing our fears, when we are the most vulnerable.

Fazal
October 5, 2017, 01:47 PM
Oh yeah, real words. Facing our fears, when we are the most vulnerable.

What the worst can happen? The worst case scenario will be she will say 'No'... may be this is not worse.... the worst that can happen is she will slap you with her sandal.

So? Life goes on, Go for the next best... or even better in next neighborhood with more motivation.... at some point you will hear the sweet word 'Maybe' with a smile and life will be a 'beach' again.

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 01:50 PM
What the worst can happen? The worst case scenario will be she will say 'No'... may be this is not worse.... the worst that can happen is she will slap you with her sandal.

So? Life goes on, Go for the next best... or even better in next neighborhood with more motivation.... at some point you will hear the sweet word 'Maybe' with a smile.

Man, I love every bit of this.

I did mentioned earlier that there was some good news, in a nut-shell, it is a work in progress. Things are moving along slowly as of now, at snail's pace. But not in a backward direction.

Fazal
October 5, 2017, 01:55 PM
Man, I love every bit of this.

I did mentioned earlier that there was some good news, in a nut-shell, it is a work in progress. Things are moving along slowly as of now, at snail's pace. But not in a backward direction.

hmmm... now in 'may be' stage? Or just 'cute smile' back stage?

aklemalp
October 5, 2017, 01:57 PM
hmmm... now in 'may be' stage? Or just 'cute smile' back stage?

Hehe :lol:

"cute smile" phase is non-existent, and rightly so.

All the jokes and laughing matter are merely specks on the wall.

DinRaat.
October 5, 2017, 06:12 PM
oh ok...here is my positive pitch.

if you die today, the rest of the world care less, the world will still move on.

Therefore whatever you feel like doing it, close your eye and just do it....most likely nobody will notice.

I know it mind sound sadistic or borderline fked up.

But the best time to die, is when you are newborn, because you don't have to deal with stresses of life, and if you do die. It straight to heaven for you.

aklemalp
October 6, 2017, 07:12 AM
I know it mind sound sadistic or borderline fked up.

But the best time to die, is when you are newborn, because you don't have to deal with stresses of life, and if you do die. It straight to heaven for you.

Not knowing.

Ignorance is bliss. No positive vibes there. Just somber

aklemalp
October 6, 2017, 10:45 AM
Days like today, we need the most words of encouragement and warmth.

The day being BD cricket's

aklemalp
October 12, 2017, 09:55 AM
Smile at a stranger today. Brighten up their world.

aklemalp
October 16, 2017, 05:38 PM
Some positive vibrations for BC forum on this somber Monday evening(Mondays, blehhh, :( , turn that frown upside-down :) ) :


Live if you want to live
(Rastaman vibration, yeah! Positive!)
That's what we got to give!
(I'n'i vibration yeah! Positive)
Got to have a good vibe!
(Iyaman Iration, yeah! Irie ites!)
Wo-wo-ooh!
(Positive vibration, yeah! Positive!)

If you get down and you quarrel everyday,
You're saying prayers to the devils, I say. Wo-oh-ooh!
Why not help one another on the way?
Make it much easier. (Just a little bit easier)

DinRaat.
October 16, 2017, 09:16 PM
Some positive vibrations for BC forum on this somber Monday evening(Mondays, blehhh, :( , turn that frown upside-down :) ) :

Record yourself singing it and post it on BC, that will make me happier.

aklemalp
October 16, 2017, 10:25 PM
Record yourself singing it and post it on BC, that will make me happier.

<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/VbC7t2OBlt8" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

Enjoy!

DinRaat.
October 16, 2017, 11:01 PM
<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/VbC7t2OBlt8" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

Enjoy!

I thought, you would be taller.

aklemalp
October 16, 2017, 11:03 PM
I thought, you would be taller.

You thought wrong. I am quite an average human being in terms of body size and height.

DinRaat.
October 16, 2017, 11:09 PM
You thought wrong. I am quite an average human being in terms of body size and height.

Don't wanna be too average, then you won't stand out.

Roy_1
October 17, 2017, 03:30 AM
Don't wanna be too average, then you won't stand out.

How tall are you?

Roy_1
October 17, 2017, 03:31 AM
You thought wrong. I am quite an average human being in terms of body size and height.

Akle is that you in the video?

DinRaat.
October 17, 2017, 03:31 AM
How tall are you?

1.75metres.

aklemalp
October 17, 2017, 09:20 AM
Akle is that you in the video?

Nah, I'm not that great of a vocalist and guitar player.