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TigerFan
May 23, 2004, 04:18 PM
Now, if you ever loved someone, didn't get her, didn't see her for nearly 10 years, and she lives in a other continent and you still miss her, what do u do?:(

[Edited on 5-25-2004 by chinaman : Moderation. Edit title]

AsifTheManRahman
May 23, 2004, 04:26 PM
take a plane...fly to her place...bend down on your knees...'n tell her about your feelings...

no man i'm serious...

[Edited on 23-5-2004 by AsifTheManRahman]

Arnab
May 23, 2004, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by TigerFan
Now, if you ever loved someone, didn't get her, didn't see her for nearly 10 years, and she lives in a other continent and you still miss her, what do u do?:(

You need to get out and meet more girls. Maybe get a girlfriend or something.

EngWIndian
May 23, 2004, 04:53 PM
Give yourself a slap and get out more:)

Or... pick up de phone and call her?

reinausagi
May 23, 2004, 07:46 PM
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm................Now, if you ever loved someone, didn't get her, didn't see her for nearly 10 years, and she lives in a other continent and you still miss her, what do u do?


Leave things as is, and re-evaluate in another 10 years. A little 'pang' in your heart just makes you have more zest for life. Now, if you 'love' her as opposed to 'miss' her, I'd go with AsifTheManRahman's suggestion.

abhs
May 23, 2004, 09:40 PM
Originally posted by TigerFan
Now, if you ever loved someone, didn't get her, didn't see her for nearly 10 years, and she lives in a other continent and you still miss her, what do u do?:(

Try to trace the problem or what to do next or suggestion etc... using this Love Calculator (http://www.lovecalculator.com/).:heart::-/

Rubu
May 23, 2004, 11:42 PM
there are some more info that needed to be consider before giving any suggestion.

1. is she married?
2. is the happily married? (make sure u understand the difference with #1)
3. Does she have kids?
4. Are u married?
5. did u ever had a relation with her?


remember the saying about winning toss and batting in cricket? like if the pitch is bad, think, think and then take batting...., follow that, consider all the question seriously and then go and tell her.
i'm serious.
see man, what the worst can happen, a slap on the face? whats so bad about it, at least u'll get a touch of your dream girl, right?

Orpheus
May 24, 2004, 12:49 AM
see man, what the worst can happen, a slap on the face? whats so bad about it, at least u'll get a touch of your dream girl, right?

oh pleaasseee. What the hell is wrong with you? A slap on the face?? bi**h slap her back...PERIOD! She should be happy that someone loves her.... even if it's the ugliest guy in the whole world... or even a monkey! BD girls need to grow up OR take it up......................

By the way, in his case I don't think - "NO" is really the worst thing :) He is getting his heart torn apart :(

Jaihok, I will go with Arnab. TigerFan, you need to go out and socialize with girls more.... In 10 years, a lot of things happen.. her mere face as of now might be the ultimate repellent - so go and meet.

And if you still feel the love.. express it.. if rejected.. take it like a man.. and move on to your next love.....

Sing with me... "do you believe in love after love after love" HELL YEAH!
Say it again HELL F***ing YEAH!

[Edited on 24-5-2004 by Orpheus : curse added :)]

[Edited on 24-5-2004 by Orpheus : more curse added]

crickipagol
May 24, 2004, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by EngWIndian
Give yourself a slap and get out more:)

Or... pick up de phone and call her?

If you can't slap yourself, any one of us here would volunteer.

TigerFan
May 24, 2004, 08:25 AM
Thank you guys for the advice. I will consider them all. It is just that my head wasn't clear yesterday. Thank you again.:)

Nascer
May 25, 2004, 08:20 AM
[Edited on 6-9-2004 by Nascer]

TigerFan
May 25, 2004, 04:49 PM
Thank you Nascar bhai!:)

BushidoTiger
May 25, 2004, 05:48 PM
I agree with the reinausagi. You gotta make sure its 'love'. After graduating from an all boys HS and in a ultraconservative BD, I used to fall 'love' with every girl that ever came to the store selling cheese at the local mall (my first job) and said "thanks' with a smiling face.

If I'd a penny for each I time I fell in "love", I'd be a rich man.

Soon, I learned about phases of this funny feeling and butterflies -in-stomach thingi called love.

You got your garden varieties of 'puppy love', infatuation, having a short/long lived crush on someone etc.

Then of course one day, you'd hit the big one - when you'd actuall fall in love.

You wouldn't know when/why it happened or how..but you'd just feel in inside-->this one would have a diff. twist to it.

Its kinda like being hit by tacquila shot at an Acapulco club. You flinch as it hits you in the stomach, burns all the way down as it lets you feel everything.
Yet, you can hardly wait to get another one of those.
In case you've never been to Acapulco and have been leading a kosher life sans alcohol, substitute the feeling with the 'high/rush' you get once you are on the baddest of the roller coaster- as soon as you are back on the ground, you wanna get on it again.
Bad analogy - but I think you got the point.

Bottom line is, figure out where your feelings stand. If you have not talked/discussed with her in last ten yrs...I doubt its love. You are infatuated with your impression/fantasy of her frozen at an earlier time. Ten yrs a long time, people change. You sure did and so did this person.

After you done taking the inventory, act upon it, make sure its safe though.

If she's married and have multiple kids from another dude - don't go there..even if you are still in 'love'.

And don't even think about writing sad songs/poems about your lost 'love'. Bengalee literature is already full of these melancholy/tragedic tales :)

And Orpheus..
No offense dude. I dunno what's up with you and the language bro. I know you're trying to be kewl and stuff..but that language? You should gurgle soapy h2o. (don't mean to be preaching).

I can tell from the posting, u are for sure sexually deprieved.

You need just go out and get laid - don't care how/with whom. Even if you have pay for it (just make sure to be safe). Not only you're gonna feel better, u'll look at things from a diff. perspective. I promise :)

Orpheus
May 25, 2004, 06:39 PM
that was a hilarious post bushido tiger... I never seen you here till now yet you have like 50 posts.. hmmm...

I am definitely sexually deprived ... no doubt...but that cursing has nothing to do with it. And cursing is not cool.... that was a psychotherapy.. i was trying to cheer him up!

BushidoTiger
May 25, 2004, 08:35 PM
Orpheus

We're supposed run some simulation..but realized at the last moment that our Canberra staffs didn't have their mojos in place. So, I was just sitting pretty at the lab instead of driving back to my office and 'look busy' at uncles Sam's expense.

I was catching up on my technical reading and visiting every(almost) single threads and posting replies.
Its kinda like when you are in a public restroom (gotta be a clean one though), not in a hurry and all of sudden you discover a piece of newspaper and you end up reading every single inch of it including ad from the psychics and male enhancement drugs etc.
Although, at times I'd been surprised when the data (like the price of a Hyundai for $8K) wouldn't tally up only to discover that the stale paper had been a couple of yrs. old.

I'm glad you took the posting as 'tongue and cheek' one as it was intended and didn't get offended. That in itself speaks volume.

BTW..I'd been there, when I desperately needed to do you know what..
umm..now that i'm married w/ a child, life has done a total full circle. I'm back where I started.

Contrary popular belief, every child after the very first one of the married couple, either born due to immaculate conception or the wives were drininking water out of the same cups as their husbands (unless of course the mailman had a hand in it).

mona
May 26, 2004, 05:43 AM
someone said something about not seeing her for a long time and it reminded me of this poem we did in English the other day- Tigerfan man, follow this.


A VALEDICTION FORBIDDING MOURNING.
by John Donne



AS virtuous men pass mildly away,
And whisper to their souls to go,
Whilst some of their sad friends do say,
"Now his breath goes," and some say, "No."

So let us melt, and make no noise,
No tear-floods, nor sigh-tempests move ;
'Twere profanation of our joys
To tell the laity our love.

Moving of th' earth brings harms and fears ;
Men reckon what it did, and meant ;
But trepidation of the spheres,
Though greater far, is innocent.

Dull sublunary lovers' love
—Whose soul is sense—cannot admit
Of absence, 'cause it doth remove
The thing which elemented it.

But we by a love so much refined,
That ourselves know not what it is,
Inter-assurèd of the mind,
Care less, eyes, lips and hands to miss.

Our two souls therefore, which are one,
Though I must go, endure not yet
A breach, but an expansion,
Like gold to aery thinness beat.

If they be two, they are two so
As stiff twin compasses are two ;
Thy soul, the fix'd foot, makes no show
To move, but doth, if th' other do.

And though it in the centre sit,
Yet, when the other far doth roam,
It leans, and hearkens after it,
And grows erect, as that comes home.

Such wilt thou be to me, who must,
Like th' other foot, obliquely run ;
Thy firmness makes my circle just,
And makes me end where I begun.

[Edited on 26-5-2004 by mona]

Mridul
May 26, 2004, 05:58 AM
Originally posted by TigerFan
Now, if you ever loved someone, didn't get her, didn't see her for nearly 10 years, and she lives in a other continent and you still miss her, what do u do?:(

[Edited on 5-25-2004 by chinaman : Moderation. Edit title]


call or meet her gurdians...and tell them u wanna marry her

abhs
May 26, 2004, 06:54 AM
If you would be going to meet her, or call her, why don't you prepare? Here is one example of your conversation-


http://e-kobi.net/kobita/kobita/2002-9/kobita/1.gif

or

http://e-kobi.net/kobita/kobita/2002-9/kobita/18.gif

Source: e-kobi.net

[Edited on 26-5-2004 by abhs]

Nascer
May 26, 2004, 08:00 AM
[Edited on 6-9-2004 by Nascer]

fab
May 26, 2004, 06:19 PM
A VALEDICTION FORBIDDING MOURNING.
by John Donne oooh la! John Donne.. you literati you :bird:

TigerFan, I have the same recommendation as the others: move on. You've probably become blind to some great girls around you because of your fantasy!

chinaman
May 26, 2004, 09:15 PM
Decision time? Talk to your heart then take practical steps, small or big. Best wishes.