So because a relationship can have a bad impact on your professional life you should stay away from it?
You know what I think it is? Most of you kids are just jealous by the fact that they can all score (except Ash) and you guys can't. You guys wish you were in their positions. Stop acting like you guys are their parents, and they are too young to think for themselves. It's becoming very kheth-like. These guys are all over 21, and they are well into their manhood. They aren't "too young." Go worry about yourself.
Also, they don't visit BC to read your advises, so stop wasting everyone's time and BC's space. Buncha lonely people...