How ironic it may sound but there is some truth in the post above. Actually a lot of second generation school students do marijuana in the back of their parents. I have seen few of my cousins doing it while their parents are having the picture of them being religious, praying regularly, health concerned and studious as hell. It is funny that my aunt has lot of trouble to run her family in NYC but she won't move to another state because of the availability of native groceries and community, also whenever I tell her that you have loads of property in Dhaka, why are you struggling here year after year - her only excuse would be better life of her children, which is not really happening as they both are addicts and alcoholics.
Humility is a strength, show it.