Losing your own culture and your own way is not a sign of progress. It's a symptom of being lost.
Premarital sex and non consented sex is far more pervasive in village.
Exerting your rights, becoming strong, maintaining your culture, becoming well educated and staying classy is expensive. The girls that you see at 2 am in Gulshan restaurant don't live there. They are from sorrounding areas, kids of poorer background, lost and want a taste of the high life. They are being taken advantage of by the rich kids young boy or some cases the rich middle aged man themselves.
Rich girls go to bed at 9 pm, safe and protected in their own house after they finish their nofol prayer.