What makes a good husband/bf?

lamisa · #1 July 4, 2012, 02:36 AM

alright ladies, we have our own thread on the right kind of partner now. let's talk about our preferences here. fire away ladies!!!

lamisa · #2 July 4, 2012, 02:39 AM

things are VERY high up on my list:
1) mejaj kom
2) kotha kom
3) HAS to be smarter or atleast as smart as me
4) loyal and faithful

Sohel · #3 July 4, 2012, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by lamisa
things are VERY high up on my list:
1) mejaj kom
2) kotha kom
3) HAS to be smarter or atleast as smart as me
4) loyal and faithful

That's all? Really Lamisa?

Can he be broke? Impotent? A gutless moral and ethical relativist as long as he's loyal and faithful to you? Can he have sub par hygiene? Can he have absolutely embarrassing taste in clothes, music and culture?

lamisa · #4 July 4, 2012, 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
That's all? Really Lamisa?

Can he be broke? Impotent? A gutless moral and ethical relativist as long as he's loyal and faithful to you? Can he have sub par hygiene? Can he have absolutely embarrassing taste in clothes, music and culture?

those were the top few MUSTs. now let's add more:
cricket lover hoite hobe!
has to be clean and neat because i am germophobic
has to dress well
has to have the ability to dhaowafy tiktikis
has to know how to cook
must respect my sleeping hours and pattern
gaaye gondho thakte parbe na, nokhe moyla thakte parbe na
alcohol consume kora nishedh
strong morals and values
shikkhito poribar jekhane mohilara careerist type
doctor/ teacher jate na hoy

zinatf · #5 July 4, 2012, 03:27 AM

LOVE you LAMS!!! Ahh!! FINALLY

1) HAS to have good sense of humour
2) be honest and faithful
3) have less male chauvinism

Sohel · #6 July 4, 2012, 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by zinatf
LOVE you LAMS!!! Ahh!! FINALLY

1) HAS to have good sense of humour
2) be honest and faithful
3) have less male chauvinism

What's "less" male chauvinism compared to "no" male chauvinism?

zinatf · #7 July 4, 2012, 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
What's "less" male chauvinism compared to "no" male chauvinism?

NO chauvinism bolle to bolben je er cheye meye dhorte hobe! Let's face it! Cheleder chauvinism ektu holeo thakbei! Mojjagoto shobab je!!!

Ar agree with Lams.....has to fulfill my wish...of allowing to have in-built floor in our apartment especially for my shoes/bags/perfumes and dresses...Lams to Tiffany bolse...I prefer Harry Winston

Ar ami jodi boli din to din...raat to raat....apnara bouder moddhe jodi eita khujte chan....to amra keno na? And HAS to take me for a Europe or Carribean tour or Asis tour quarterly

And MUST show UTMOST respect to my family and friends....chelera bole bou/gf ke family-r shathe maniye nite hoe...keno bhai? Why should girls/women do all the work! Nijerao to kichu koro...

And of course, have to give me freedom to go for an all-girls tour to Vegas/Ibiza once a year...shudhu chelerai party korbe keno....why should boys have all the fun

lamisa · #8 July 4, 2012, 06:09 AM

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Originally Posted by zinatf
NO less chauvinism bolle to bolben je er cheye meye dhorte hobe! Let's face it! Cheleder chauvinism ektu holeo thakbei! Mojjagoto shobab je!!!

Ar agree with Lams.....has to fulfill my wish...of allowing to have in-built floor in our apartment especially for my shoes/bags/perfumes and dresses...Lams to Tiffany olse...I prefer Harry Winston

Ar ami jodi boli din to din...raat to raat....apnara bouder mosshe jodi eita khujte chan....to amra keno na? And HAS to take me for a Europe or Carribean tour or Asis tour wuarterly

And MUST show UTMOST respect to my family and friends....chelera bole bou/gf ke family-r shathe maniye nite hoe...keno bhai? Why should girls/women do all the work! Nijerao to kichu koro...

And of course, have to give me freedom to go for an all-girls tour to Vegas/Ibiza once a year...shudhu chelerai party kore keno....why should boys have all the fun

ji apu. ami ekmot apnar shathe. amar aro kichhu shorto achhe. amar chhele friends der niye jodi insecure feel kore ar kach kach kore taile ekta lathi mere shoshur bari pathay dibo!!

zinatf · #9 July 4, 2012, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by lamisa
ji apu. ami ekmot apnar shathe. amar aro kichhu shorto achhe. amar chhele friends der niye jodi insecure feel kore ar kach kach kore taile ekta lathi mere shoshur bari pathay dibo!!

ARRE! Ami to oi proshongoi tullam na! halo korso mone koraaye diye...of course insecure feel korle...dokkhiner duwar khola ache....dokkhin dike haatiya jaan

nadim 98 · #10 July 4, 2012, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by zinatf
NO chauvinism bolle to bolben je er cheye meye dhorte hobe! Let's face it! Cheleder chauvinism ektu holeo thakbei! Mojjagoto shobab je!!!

Ar agree with Lams.....has to fulfill my wish...of allowing to have in-built floor in our apartment especially for my shoes/bags/perfumes and dresses...Lams to Tiffany bolse...I prefer Harry Winston

Ar ami jodi boli din to din...raat to raat....apnara bouder moddhe jodi eita khujte chan....to amra keno na? And HAS to take me for a Europe or Carribean tour or Asis tour quarterly

And MUST show UTMOST respect to my family and friends....chelera bole bou/gf ke family-r shathe maniye nite hoe...keno bhai? Why should girls/women do all the work! Nijerao to kichu koro...

And of course, have to give me freedom to go for an all-girls tour to Vegas/Ibiza once a year...shudhu chelerai party korbe keno....why should boys have all the fun

Hmm would u allow ur husband to go all boys tour to ibiza?

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nadim 98 · #11 July 4, 2012, 04:01 AM

dhui ghontay duita reply

Antora · #12 July 4, 2012, 04:46 AM

as long as I'm the one wearing the pants in the relo and he loves cricket= good hubby/bf =P

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Originally Posted by nadim 98
dhui ghontay duita reply

Dude, the men out number the women by a big margin! -_- Dui ghontay dui reply is very normal =P

Antora · #13 July 4, 2012, 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Antora
as long as I'm the one wearing the pants in the relo and he loves cricket= good hubby/bf =P

I think I should do a normal one. although, I can sort of see myself as being a very controlling wife (my poor husband =P). I am apparently the human version on Plankton ( from Spongebob)- small and evil!

anyway..so this is my criteria I suppose :S

1) Must be able to speak/read/write fluent Bangla

2) Must be religious- no alcohol,cigs etc. I hate these two habbits in men. That being said, religion is not entirely determined on how well you avoid these things...therefore, he must pray and in a way, make me a better Muslim - if that makes sense =S

3) doesn't have to be super rich. As long as he's got a good degree ( no medical doctors) and a stable job, he can make his way up the job hierarchy and eventually earn lots

4) as I said before, must love cricket and thus, must tolerate my Love for Shakib?Tamim?mushy etc without feeling insecure =S (this insecurity issue also includes some of my really close male friends).

5) Doesn't need to come shopping with me. I dislike men shopping with me. However, if he voluntarily chooses to come, he must not complain -_-

6) must be caring, kind , etc and very tolerant as well I'm a demanding person...and kinda spoilt....

7)Doesn't have to buy me dimonds (I hate gold..it's disgusting! I refuse to wear it). However, diamond jewellery every now and then (birthday, anniversary...no reason at all) will be greatly appreciated.

8) doesn't have to do too many chores around the house. However, vacuuming the house once a week, or washing the dishes...or even making some salad, will be greatly appreciated.

9)Fashion sense- well I'm not too fussed. As long as he doesn't wear runners with jeans! wears a nice blazer, doesn't wear yellow or red (I dislike those colours), doesn't wear paterned shirts...doesn't wear too much stripes or dots for that matter, I'm fine :S. However, wearing suits would be greatlly appreciated ( find men in suits quiet attractive) and absolutely NO LUNGI!

10) Must be healthy, fit etc

11) Must love children like me

*kids are sooo cuteee *

12) Must love throwing dinner parties, Must have a day where he hangs out with his male friends so I can chill with my female friends.

Sohel · #14 July 4, 2012, 05:16 AM

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Originally Posted by nadim 98
dhui ghontay duita reply

This Forum's a total sausagefest bro. So please put the number of responses in context. Hell, why don't we go ahead and participate?

zinatf · #15 July 4, 2012, 04:50 AM

Oh yes! He has to love CRICKET

Sohel · #16 July 4, 2012, 05:27 AM

Now, that's better.

BTW, what's wrong with being a doctor or a teacher? Being on call 24/7 and an endless supply of hot young students every year?

lamisa · #17 July 4, 2012, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
Now, that's better.

BTW, what's wrong with being a doctor or a teacher? Being on call 24/7 and an endless supply of hot young students every year?

teacher bhallage na keno jani ar doctors have a pathetic life. my mum's one and she is one of those doctors jara chember kore na

Sohel · #18 July 4, 2012, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by lamisa
teacher bhallage na keno jani ar doctors have a pathetic life. my mum's one and she is one of those doctors jara chember kore na

Well, iDumb's a doctor and Zunaid was a teacher. Neither has a pathetic life I can assure you.

lamisa · #19 July 4, 2012, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
Well, iDumb's a doctor and Zunaid' was a teacher. Neither has a pathetic life I can assure you.

doctors remain very busy!! ar etto porashona! i prefer an entrepreneur or a corporate guy

Sohel · #20 July 4, 2012, 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by lamisa
doctors remain very busy!! ar etto porashona! i prefer an entrepreneur or a corporate guy

Like Lotus Kamal for example? Or the Walton/Marcel/Sylhet Royals bossman?

Kabir · #21 July 4, 2012, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
Well, iDumb's a doctor and Zunaid was a teacher. Neither has a pathetic life I can assure you.

Hmmm, that's debatable.

**Zunaid** · #22 July 4, 2012, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
Well, iDumb's a doctor and Zunaid was a teacher. Neither has a pathetic life I can assure you.

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Originally Posted by Kabir
Hmmm, that's debatable.

Irrelevant. My life. Not yours.

Jealous much?

I can't speak for Orphy, but I'm happy, my wife is happy, and my daughter is happy. What's there to debate? You don't live my life. One day, you might reach what I have. I surely hope you do.

PS: are most young folks usually chauvinists, or gold-diggers, or inherently jealous these days?

lamisa · #23 July 4, 2012, 05:29 AM

beton minimum 2lakh hoite hobe monthly, gulshan/banani/baridharay 1ta independent basha ar koyekta flat thakte hobe.
amar jonno 2ta gari lagbe
prottek year e atleast 2ta vacation desher baire.................

Sohel · #24 July 4, 2012, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by lamisa
beton minimum 2lakh hoite hobe monthly, gulshan/banani/baridharay 1ta independent basha ar koyekta flat thakte hobe.
amar jonno 2ta gari lagbe
prottek year e atleast 2ta vacation desher baire.................

Ebar ashol jaygagulote asha shuru hoyechhe

F6_Turbo · #25 July 4, 2012, 05:32 AM

I'll put down one they all want to put...but haven't yet

1. Must cede to my will