What's on your mind? (BC Version)

[Navo]

Originally Posted by al-Sagar
preparing for a 1 month trip to Vienna, Austria exactly 1 month later.

So you'll be there on the 13th? Anything related to the IAEA by any chance? I'm going to Austria a few times in the next month, maybe we'll have a chance to meet there?

[al-Sagar]

Originally Posted by Navo
So you'll be there on the 13th? Anything related to the IAEA by any chance? I'm going to Austria a few times in the next month, maybe we'll have a chance to meet there?

off course related to IAEA.

i am going there for a 1 month IAEA fellow ship programme related to establishing infrastructure for nuclear power in Bangladesh. it will be held at the IAEA HQ at VIC.

so we have a good chance to meet there. i will arrive at vienna on 13th Jan and will leave on 14th Feb.

How are u related to IAEA ?

[nadim 98]

Ajaira pechal in official shak thread

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[Ajfar]

Originally Posted by Zunaid
The you do deserve the A-

What course was this then? Political Science?

I wish it was political science. It was Engineering Analysis.

Dillu I did turn in the exam. The TA had no stapler or paperclips. So I had to turn in all loose sheets. I even wrote my name on every single pages.

[FaHiMa]

So my sister's b-day at midnight. Had a cake and stuff. Smeared blue and green icing on her face, she did the same to me. Thought we both looked like avatars (?) so decided to smear the icing on our entire face. I think we kept it on for too long. My sister's came off right away. MINE DIDN'T ! I LOOKED LIKE THE WICKED WITCH OF THE WEST!!!! Took me hours to get it off... NEVER AGAIN! lol

[iDumb]

we need pictures...or it didn't happen...

[roman]

Originally Posted by nadim 98
Ajaira pechal in official shak thread

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It will continue till we start playing cricket. Next topic coming up, where he is going for honeymoon. Or Shakib er shaali ase?

[Crisis]

Originally Posted by roman
It will continue till we start playing cricket. Next topic coming up, where he is going for honeymoon. Or Shakib er shaali ase?

SHAALI ASE? REALLY ? Agey kon nai ken ?

What's on my mind. ... Biya kora dorkar, bhalo maiya koi pai ?
Shobgula friendser friends list ghaita dekhalm ajkey. Ki ar korum, eke ekta friends useless .. koilam kuno meyer logey introduce koraiya ditey .. kissu sata korlo na!

[iDumb]

what happened to the one you hand picked.. already got dumped i suppose?

Tomar financial status dekhe to ami ektu worried..(ur bank balance)... i hope you are really good looking and healthy bro.... otherwise girl is losing on all fronts...ie personality/thought process, money, love (cuz being arranged u know).

[Crisis]

Originally Posted by iDumb
what happened to the one you hand picked.. already got dumped i suppose?

Tomar financial status dekhe to ami ektu worried..(ur bank balance)... i hope you are really good looking and healthy bro.... otherwise girl is losing on all fronts...ie personality/thought process, money, love (cuz being arranged u know).

The one I picked is on hand, engagement talks haven't been done yet and our family haven't proposed yet either. how do I say it she's best of the lot for the moment. If I can't find someone better by Feb, then it's gonna be her.

If the amount in my bank isn't enough, I don't know what is!

[roman]

No offense to anyone and I really mean it. but I think this whole kone dekha system is very cheap. It's like going to a gorur haat and hand pick the best possible cow out there. And if you don't like what you see, you move on to the next one or you keep one in hand and continue exploring the market expecting something better will show up..No respect for woman there. Do we even try to understand what goes on in a girl's mind when she finds out that she has been rejected because the groom got someone better.?

Chok Chok korlei kintu shona hoy na shob shomoy

[cricheart]

Originally Posted by roman
No offense to anyone and I really mean it. but I think this whole kone dekha system is very cheap. It's like going to a gorur haat and hand pick the best possible cow out there. And if you don't like what you see, you move on to the next one or you keep one in hand and continue exploring the market expecting something better will show up..No respect for woman there. Do we even try to understand what goes on in a girl's mind when she finds out that she has been rejected because the groom got someone better.?

Chok Chok korlei kintu shona hoy na shob shomoy

Plz no disrespect given. I'm not sure, but I guess girls wont feel hurt much other than a little dissapointment as long as this is about arranged marriage. Unless you have grown a sense of personality with maturity & educational qualities enough to take own decision, you wouldn't seek much from this type of relations. External visible qualities (beauty, money, fame, religion etc) gets more points here. There is allways easy pass & fail on these arrangements which is mostly directed & given by the mature party (bride/groom).
Still I'm big beleiver in arranged marriage, simply because in this way of marriage there is lot of sense of sacrifice & compromise exist, that tends mosts to change in positive manners.

[crikss]

murrubir thread ta sondehojonok pace academyr naam a chanda tultese. but kono kichui clear na

[Crisis]

Originally Posted by roman
No offense to anyone and I really mean it. but I think this whole kone dekha system is very cheap. It's like going to a gorur haat and hand pick the best possible cow out there. And if you don't like what you see, you move on to the next one or you keep one in hand and continue exploring the market expecting something better will show up..No respect for woman there. Do we even try to understand what goes on in a girl's mind when she finds out that she has been rejected because the groom got someone better.?

Chok Chok korlei kintu shona hoy na shob shomoy

I agree this whole kone dekha system is crap. There should be Muslims only marriage clubs .. there is one in Manchester where on certain days of the week in a restaurant, you pay the entrance fee and then mingle around with people , there are no seats so everyone stands and mingles. There's buffet food. Girls are also there with their elder bro or dad or mom.
Unless you have managed to get a gf when in secondary school, college or uni, you are royally screwed!
You also need to have friends who like to matchmake.

The bit you said about how the girl feels when she's been rejected, well.... the guy keeps on meeting a lot of girls. At the same time, the girl also keeps on meeting a lot of guys. As long as you don't propose, I don't see the problem. But if you do propose and then back off, you need to be shot.
Both girls and guys draw up a ranking and then there's points allocation based on talent, looks, education, etc. And, then you decide among the top 3.

[FaHiMa]

Originally Posted by iDumb
we need pictures...or it didn't happen...

I have pictures, so it did happen. And NO!

[FaHiMa]

Someone create a love marriage vs arranged marriage thread already... Zeesh, you're needed!

[mufi_02]

Originally Posted by Crisis
Both girls and guys draw up a ranking and then there's points allocation based on talent, looks, education, etc. And, then you decide among the top 3.

talent? what kind of talent are you talking about? Susan Boyle won Britain's got Talent yet she never got married.

[simon]

Originally Posted by mufi_02
talent? what kind of talent are you talking about? Susan Boyle won Britain's got Talent yet she never got married.

same goes for Ash.

[roman]

Susan Boyle is amazing. Perfect way to say never judge a person based on appearance

[roman]

Masked gunman kills 29 including 22 children at Connecticut's primary school.

This brought tears to my eyes. How can you...even think of...children for god's sake. Rot in hell u ....

[Crisis]

Originally Posted by mufi_02
talent? what kind of talent are you talking about? Susan Boyle won Britain's got Talent yet she never got married.

Talent jemon

Cheleta
- gachey uthtey parey
- hortal er shomoy it-patkel martey parey
- dui hatey goru jobai kortey parey
- daraiya daraiya ghumaitey parey
- Gangam styley nachtey parey
etc. !!!

[Antora]

Originally Posted by roman
No offense to anyone and I really mean it. but I think this whole kone dekha system is very cheap. It's like going to a gorur haat and hand pick the best possible cow out there. And if you don't like what you see, you move on to the next one or you keep one in hand and continue exploring the market expecting something better will show up..No respect for woman there. Do we even try to understand what goes on in a girl's mind when she finds out that she has been rejected because the groom got someone better.?

Chok Chok korlei kintu shona hoy na shob shomoy

I agree with u 100%. Never been a fan of this concept .

[BengaliPagol]

I am also not a fan of 'arranged marriage' but for some reason it does get more success from what i have experienced (as in less divorces). But im not sure if both husband and wife are happy with each other when arranged marriaged.

Massive LOL

I am a 14-year-old boy studying in ninth standard. My tuition teacher has a 21-year-old daughter. She's very hot and all the boys in the tuition class like her a lot. But she has fallen for me although I have not told any of my friends about it. We have also been physically intimate. However, now I realise my mistake and want to get out of this trouble without messing up my life. Please help.

The rest: http://articles.timesofindia.indiati...ngagement-ring

[iDumb]

Originally Posted by Crisis
If the amount in my bank isn't enough, I don't know what is!

I think you think a bit too high of yourself to the point you are detaching yourself from reality. What's next? You gonna claim yourself as being in top 1% Bangladeshis?

Bro you can't even buy your to be bou decent jewelry with that money . Shakib bhabi's gold dekhchen? Bolen to dekhi oitar daam koto.... dekhi koto idea ache apnar, naki sharadin ajaira pechal paren...

you are an interesting guy though... and I have a feeling you gonna end up with a really hot girl and all jokes will be on us...

[iDumb]

Originally Posted by FaHiMa
I have pictures, so it did happen. And NO!

it was worth the try..... I mean it would have fulfilled Zeeshan's dream at least. Consider that a Christmas gift for your favorite member Zeesh!!..