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Old July 9, 2017, 08:42 PM
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Default ক্রিকেটাররাই কেন বারবার? মুক্তির পথই বা কী?



ক্রিকেটকে বলা হয় ‘জেন্টেলম্যান গেম’। ‘ভদ্রলোকের খেলা’। বাংলাদেশের মানুষের জন্য তা গর্বের। এই খেলাটিই বাংলাদেশকে বিশ্বের বুকে আলাদা পরিচিতি এনে দিয়েছে। গত দুই-আড়াই বছর ধরে বাংলাদেশের ক্রিকেটীয় সাফল্যের গ্রাফ যখন ওপরের দিকে, তখনই এ দেশের বেশ কয়েকজন শীর্ষ ক্রিকেটার জড়িয়ে পড়লেন অনাকাঙ্ক্ষিত ঘটনায়। সর্বশেষ যে তালিকায় যুক্ত হলো পেসার মোহাম্মদ শহীদের নাম। গত আড়াই বছরে এ নিয়ে চারজন ক্রিকেটারের বিরুদ্ধে নারীঘটিত অভিযোগ উঠল।

ফৌজদারি অভিযোগের কারণে জাতীয় দলের তিন ক্রিকেটারের জেলহাজতে যাওয়ার ঘটনাও ঘটেছে। একজন ক্রিকেটারের বিরুদ্ধে তাঁর বাড়ির শিশু গৃহকর্মীর বিরুদ্ধে পাশবিক নির্যাতনের অভিযোগও উঠেছিল।

ক্রিকেটাররা যখন এ সময়ের তরুণ প্রজন্মের ‘আইকন’; তারা নিজেরা ঠিক পথে আছেন তো? কেন বারবার এমন ঘটনা ঘটছে? এর থেকে উত্তরণের পথই বা কী?


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Old July 9, 2017, 08:44 PM
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অভিযোগ নিয়ে বিসিবিতে ক্রিকেটার শহীদের স্ত্রী

বাংলাদেশ ক্রিকেট বোর্ডের (বিসিবি) বিষয়টি নিয়ে গুরুত্বের সঙ্গে ভাবা উচিত। জাতীয় দলের একের পর এক ক্রিকেটারের সঙ্গে নারীঘটিত অনাকাঙ্ক্ষিত ঘটনার খবর আসছে। এবার এমনই অভিযোগ নিয়ে বিসিবির দুয়ারে হাজির হলেন পেসার মোহাম্মদ শহীদের স্ত্রী ফারজানা আক্তার। দুই ছোট সন্তানকে নিয়ে এসে বিসিবি সভাপতি বরাবর তিনি লিখিত অভিযোগ দিয়েছেন মিরপুরে বিসিবির কার্যালয়ে।




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Old July 9, 2017, 08:49 PM
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Education, moral-ethics and family environment are some of the key elements here -> lacking of these...resulted on ^^^ those IMHO.

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Old July 9, 2017, 11:38 PM
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yes family background and education is very vital, cultural system too play part of thinking process like of the way looking at women. our society most man think women are just made for coocking and bringing up kids. man has the last word to say cause man is the feeder of the family, women are so much dependable on men's income whereas men think his wife is his personal property with whom he can do whatever he likes. women in our society is not protected by financially that is why they are way too dependent on their men.
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If Mohammed Shahid' wife's accusation is preoven true and Shahid is genuinely responsible, he should be punished to the fullest. He should then rot in jail! What a shameless, coward morally weak scumbag@!

Beating on someone you vowed to protect and love til death? And beating on somebodey, a woman who is physically not as strong as yous Bolod muscle. These kind of cowardly scumbags are the worst of all. Pick on someone of your size, come on - pick on me, see what is left of you after I am done with you, you-ultimate loser of life! Digusting!

Great example for his two children, beating their mother.
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this accusation is likely true. one thing i disagree with above.. people are saying it's lack of education... domestic violence does not discriminate.. it transcends race, creed, culture, wealth, education.

I think we hear a lot of these because one women comes out and then others feel strong enough to come out as well.... and then there are those that seek attention like happy. It is not a cricketer problem but a general overall problem with us men.
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Bangla Bangla Everywhere. Anyone kind enough to translate, ami kisu bhuji na!
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Bangla Bangla Everywhere. Anyone kind enough to translate, ami kisu bhuji na!
So you can only speak in bengali?
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So you can only speak in bengali?
Correct,My family migrated to Sydney in the late 80s.Can only speak Bangla,but not read or write,then again my Bangla is on the same level as a kid in 4th grade
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National cricket team pacer Mohammad Shahid’s wife Farzana Akhter on Sunday filed a complaint with the Bangladesh Cricket Board (BCB) alleging that his ‘involvement in an extramarital relationship’ is hampering their marriage.

"They (BCB) have assured me that the problem would be solved," she said, adding, "I shall talk to journalists openly if they fail to resolve the matter."

The letter of complaint said Shahid and Farzana got married in 2011. Despite the lack of many material comforts, they had a happy family life. But things started to deteriorate after Shahid’s inclusion in the national side. Information about his intimate relationship with several women fans started to surface.

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this accusation is likely true. one thing i disagree with above.. people are saying it's lack of education... domestic violence does not discriminate.. it transcends race, creed, culture, wealth, education.
You are talking about institutional education, right? There are other forms of education which reflects how one shapes up...
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Absolutely deplorable!!

They get so much love and affection from people they think they are all rockstars and can get away with anything.
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You are talking about institutional education, right? There are other forms of education which reflects how one shapes up...
Good point. Yeah institutional education. There are other forms of education yes ...but those are more observationl/environmental.... how do you know he didn't have those other education?... Just because u live in "village" or is poor, doesn't mean there aren't parenting going on there

It's multifactorial really... there are kids that come out of abusive family who ends up becoming exemplary leaders in fights against violence... then there are kids who had all the right boxes clicked ends up murdering their gf.....

So it's not so straight forward.... but to reduce it i agree a cultural face lift is needed.

Perhaps Roy who is 20 years old, has an occasional gf may end up becoming a wife beater...despite showing his disapproval now. The fact that he lives in India already puts him in high risk.

Extramarital affairs, cheating, multiple gf/bfs are very common.. nothing to get alarmed about.
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Default আরও কঠোর হচ্ছে বিসিবি


আরও কঠোর হচ্ছে বিসিবি


যে ক্রিকেট নিয়ে বাংলাদেশের এত গর্ব, তাতে লাগছে কলঙ্কের কালি। স্বাভাবিকভাবেই এতে উদ্বিগ্ন বাংলাদেশ ক্রিকেট বোর্ড (বিসিবি)। আজ নাজমুল হাসান জানিয়েছেন, ক্রিকেটারদের এ ধরনের কর্মকাণ্ডের ব্যাপারে আরও কঠোর হচ্ছে বিসিবি।

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যে ক্রিকেট নিয়ে বাংলাদেশের এত গর্ব, তাতে লাগছে কলঙ্কের কালি। স্বাভাবিকভাবেই এতে উদ্বিগ্ন বাংলাদেশ ক্রিকেট বোর্ড (বিসিবি)। আজ নাজমুল হাসান জানিয়েছেন, ক্রিকেটারদের এ ধরনের কর্মকাণ্ডের ব্যাপারে আরও কঠোর হচ্ছে বিসিবি।

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Really why will people speak in favor of happy? Whole world knew she was doing this ñ to seek attention. Nothing more. Her claims of rape where completely false

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