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Old September 25, 2008, 12:29 PM
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why do we (hetro-sexual) men find certain women attractive? a certain member of this forum said a while ago that he found bengali women more attractive compared to women of all other nations, despite now living in an arabic speaking country. if i am completely honest, i find the so called beautiful bengali women highly spoken of in this forum to be very ordinary. perhaps my perception has changed after spending two third of my life abroad. i find iranian, arabic and eastern european women more attractive than all other nationalities.

how do you feel?
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Old September 25, 2008, 12:46 PM
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Define attraction. Going strictly by looks (which is pretty straightforward, but not necessarily the sole source of attraction in most definitions), my list would have to look like the following, in descending order (without any motives of displaying a condescending attitude towards a particular group):

1. Oriental
2. Arab
3. Hispanic
4. Caucasian
5. East Indian/Negroid

At the end of the day, however, the individual > race.
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Old September 25, 2008, 12:49 PM
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Depends on your mental definition of beauty. That's what you will be looking for.
Likings for marriage & rest might also have something to do with it.

Been to Lebanon & Syria as well? That might be your distracting factor. Please come back to BD for some time and refresh your memory. Might change your mind.
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Old September 25, 2008, 12:50 PM
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Define attraction. Going strictly by looks (which is pretty straightforward, but not necessarily the sole source of attraction in most definitions), my list would have to look like the following, in descending order (without any motives of displaying a condescending attitude towards a particular group):

1. Oriental
2. Arab
3. Hispanic
4. Caucasian
5. East Indian/Negroid

At the end of the day, however, the individual > race.
You might have to put age brackets for different race/origin
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Old September 25, 2008, 01:09 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder, oops, i mean beholder.

Perception varies a lot.
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Old September 25, 2008, 05:07 PM
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মানুষের বিভিন্ন কারণে কাউকে সুন্দর লাগতে পারে। কারো চেহারা খুব আকর্ষনীয়, তাই ভাল লাগতে পারে। কারো চেহারা খুব মিষ্টি, সেজন্য ভাল লাগতে পারে। কারো চেহারা খুবি মায়াকাড়া, সেজন্য ভাল লাগতে পারে।আবার কাঊকে ভদ্রতা, ব্যবহার ও ব্যক্তিত্বের কারণেও সুন্দর লাগতে পারে। After all, there could be no standard of beauty. I think there is a scientific theory based on geometry of body shape that explains why a man likes certain women and vice versa. Dr. Shaad bhai can explain it.

As for the perception of beauty, I agree with the following opinion:

01.If someone/something is truly beautiful, you will not be able to look at it for second time. “মুখের পানে চাহিনু অনিমেষে, বাজিল বুকে সুখের মত ব্যথা”-Tagore

02. "Beauty, of whatever kind, invariably excites the human soul to tears."-Edgar Allan Poe

Generally speaking:

Among Arab girls, Qataris, Lebanese, Syrians, Jordanians, Omanis and Emiratis are beautiful.

Among the sub-continental girls, Pakistani girls are most beautiul. Among Bangladeshis, beautiful girls are there but rare.

Among whites: Fair skin simply don't make you beautiful, but some are really beautiful.
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Old September 25, 2008, 05:15 PM
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I thought Shardhul bhai ekta hujur manush..maiya go dhike chokh tule takai na.. kintu ekhon dekhi uni..kaokeii charenna....
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Old September 25, 2008, 05:44 PM
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Yes Murad bhai, I try hard, to be honest, to lower my gaze, but when you are in a co-ed environment, even if you don't want, you see them. I work in the library, and my boss there is a Palestinian lady. A library associate there is an American girl. And most female students, although arab and wear cloak, do not cover their face.
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Old September 25, 2008, 05:48 PM
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Yes Murad bhai, I try hard, to be honest, to lower my gaze, but when you are in a co-ed environment, even if you don't want, you see them. I work in the library, and my boss there is a Palestinian lady. A library associate there is an American girl. And most female students, although arab and wear cloak, do not cover their face.
get another job.
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Old September 25, 2008, 06:39 PM
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Yes Murad bhai, I try hard, to be honest, to lower my gaze, but when you are in a co-ed environment, even if you don't want, you see them. I work in the library, and my boss there is a Palestinian lady. A library associate there is an American girl. And most female students, although arab and wear cloak, do not cover their face.
i will trade your job in a heartbeat...lucky!
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Old September 26, 2008, 09:03 AM
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MohamedC bhai, getting another job will not help. Girls are everywhere.

Below is a pic of me sitting in the public circulation desk of our library. Standing beside me is Ms. Dana. Other two are library associates.

This was just a pose for a photo shot though. Not usual work environment


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Old September 26, 2008, 09:57 AM
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Among the sub-continental girls, Pakistani girls are most beautiul. Among Bangladeshis, beautiful girls are there but rare.
I won't disagree about Pakistani girls being the prettiest in the sub-continent. However, I would strongly disagree about the fact that pretty Bangladeshi girls are rare.
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Old September 26, 2008, 11:42 AM
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MohamedC bhai, getting another job will not help. Girls are everywhere.

Below is a pic of me sitting in the public circulation desk of our library. Standing beside me is Ms. Dana. Other two are library associates.

This was just a pose for a photo shot though. Not usual work environment

Your pic didn't come. Can't see anyone. Don't mind if you'r not seen though
But the others.
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Old September 26, 2008, 12:10 PM
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I would strongly disagree about the fact that pretty Bangladeshi girls are rare.

I'm with you there brother.
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Old September 29, 2008, 03:37 AM
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ramadhan is almost over...alhamdulillah shardul brother just be patient and inshallah someone will enter your life soon

as for me, real beauty lies within the soul although i am highly influenced by social factors around me since i live and Study in US so it is a balance between the two(the outer and the inner) kinda...

i doesn't really matter in the end.

those who are able to get married SHOULD...! age don't matter as long as you can support your family(that's my theory)

anyways,i rarely get time to visit BC these days and i wish all of you Eid Mubarak in advance and all my prayers are with Bangladesh no matter what
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Old September 29, 2008, 03:44 AM
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Among Arab girls, Qataris, Lebanese, Syrians, Jordanians, Omanis and Emiratis are beautiful.

Among the sub-continental girls, Pakistani girls are most beautiul. Among Bangladeshis, beautiful girls are there but rare.

Among whites: Fair skin simply don't make you beautiful, but some are really beautiful.
Theres little to no difference between Omanis, Kuwaitis and Saudis, so shouldnt they be in your list as well
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Old September 29, 2008, 02:10 PM
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"Jaha pai taha chai na..
Jaha chai taha pai na..."

Ki hobe behuda shundor meyer shopno dhekhe? Khamokha bd-sharduler moto mathar chull porbey...

tar cheye lekha-pora-te mon dau.. bhobitsotey taka kamao...

Taka thakley sundori meyee keno, sundori meyer shatey ready made tui charta bachhaoo paba.

Ar taka na thakey lotarir motot maldar shosurer pocha meye paba...

affsos korey kono lav nai.
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Old September 29, 2008, 05:17 PM
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Ki hobe behuda shundor meyer shopno dhekhe? Khamokha bd-sharduler moto mathar chull porbey... tar cheye lekha-pora-te mon dau.. bhobitsotey taka kamao... Taka thakley sundori meyee keno, sundori meyer shatey ready made tui charta bachhaoo paba. Ar taka na thakey lotarir motot maldar shosurer pocha meye paba...

affsos korey kono lav nai.
Polapan smart aache bhai, taka kamanor age market er khobor nichche. Jara investment kore felse, afsos tader beshi. Mone hochche you have made irrevokable investment.
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why do we (hetro-sexual) men find certain women attractive? a certain member of this forum said a while ago that he found bengali women more attractive compared to women of all other nations, despite now living in an arabic speaking country. if i am completely honest, i find the so called beautiful bengali women highly spoken of in this forum to be very ordinary. perhaps my perception has changed after spending two third of my life abroad. i find iranian, arabic and eastern european women more attractive than all other nationalities.

how do you feel?
I met the love of my life in Bangladesh. I was born in America and have lived there my entire life, but it wasn't until I went to Bangladesh for vacation that I met my dream girl.
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Old September 29, 2008, 06:18 PM
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I met the love of my life in Bangladesh. I was born in America and have lived there my entire life, but it wasn't until I went to Bangladesh for vacation that I met my dream girl.
Did you talk to her?
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Old September 29, 2008, 06:19 PM
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Sorry,you don't have to share if you don't want to.I'm just a little curios.
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Old September 29, 2008, 08:04 PM
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Did you talk to her?
Yeah, she is my current girlfriend.
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Old September 29, 2008, 10:20 PM
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Bhaiya you're lucky.Here's my story.
When I was in Bangladesh and I was in I think class 1,we were doing a concert like sing,dance and act.My parents put me up for dancing,but the school didn't let us pick the girl that we wanted to dance with.I knew the girl that they assigned me with and but I never talked to her before and then while we were practicing,she started to joke with me and suddenly we became friends.The concert went well for me and after the concert I felt like she was the girl for me.I never even thought of telling her that I liked her.Then the year ended.

Class 2,in the begginig I didn't think about telling her.But in the middle,I felt like I had to tell her,I couldn't hold it any longer.Later my dad got DV to come to USA and we came to USA but I never got a chance to tell her that I liked her.Today I still dream of her,wondering how she is and where and if we ever meet again and the moment we are alone I will tell her how I love her.Today I still feel like I made a mistake not telling her.
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Old September 29, 2008, 10:22 PM
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Thats my sad love story.She's my first and last so far.

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