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Old June 21, 2013, 11:02 PM
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Default Marriage Counselling

Listen guys this thread is not a joke nor is to seek attention. it is not seeking any advice, frankly i dont need them. this is counselling...a space to just say whats on your mind without judgement or interruptions... this is counselling, but free rather than paying 150/hr.

basically i been married for 1 and a half year and it has been horrible...and i just hate marriage. i feel like someone put me in a oxygen less chamber and locked me inside, its suffocating.... i wasnt ready for marriage.

i dont know how you guys do this.....or why ppl even get married...its horrible.

to be cintinued....i will tell you whats wrong with marriage in later posts.. but young guys and girls with potential, please dont make mistakes.... be single and be happy... life is beautiful that way....
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Old June 22, 2013, 12:18 AM
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i am single and i am happy and i know it
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Old June 22, 2013, 01:10 AM
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iDumb bhai i think attending strip shows with your wife should solve the problem.
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Old June 22, 2013, 01:14 AM
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...or playing str|p luddu with her?
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Old June 22, 2013, 01:42 AM
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Marriage scares the hell out of me.
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Old June 22, 2013, 01:43 AM
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True even in Dhaka, lot of monogamy relationships are in threat these days.
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Old June 22, 2013, 02:49 AM
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Before marriage, you are a Tiger.
After marriage, you become a goat.
Banglae ache na, "Biye to chagolei kore" !!

Slowly, you shed your outer skin and turn like this:



And then you sing this

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Old June 22, 2013, 03:34 AM
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Counting the days (years/decades) till I get married.
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Old June 22, 2013, 04:47 AM
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For me, marriage is not a problem, the problem lies in choosing the right (!) partner ! And the problem starts when you start questioning yourself what is right for me !?
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Old June 22, 2013, 04:59 AM
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For us deshis wife is not a problem. Its the in laws. I run faster than Carl Lewis when my wife tells me in-laws are coming.
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Old June 22, 2013, 05:06 AM
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What is the purpose of marriage? Just to follow sunnah, ritual, to do sth lawfully, status, create own identity in the form of a new being or something else?
If the goal is clear and of course also the goal of the partner with mutual sincere understanding then i think there should not be any problem in unity. But often media and other issues derail our set goals and we are driven by fantasy desires. But one thing you are right- life is more beautiful being a single.
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Old June 22, 2013, 05:48 AM
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I'll revisit this thread after a decade.
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Old June 22, 2013, 02:40 PM
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amader sathe thakte thakte isnaad to hebby chotpote hoye geche dekchi...aar bacha nai
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Old June 22, 2013, 04:21 PM
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Ami kisu koi idumb bhai?

Thak, koiya feli. Apnar bou rey dui minute porey porey koiben - ami sorry, ami map chai.
Dekhben, shob thik!
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Old June 22, 2013, 10:33 PM
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Shob ajaira chapa baji iDumb er. Weekend thik e golda chingri khai bou er haate ranna kora ar tarpor forum e aisha chapa chaare
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Shob ajaira chapa baji iDumb er. Weekend thik e golda chingri khai bou er haate ranna kora ar tarpor forum e aisha chapa chaare
bangla e ekta kotha ache na, 'shukhe thakle bhoot e kilaye' ! Manush beshi shukhey thakle jaa hoy ar ki ?
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Old June 23, 2013, 01:02 AM
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You guys are bad counselors.
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Old June 23, 2013, 01:15 AM
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http://drphil.com/articles/article/25

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Old June 23, 2013, 01:56 AM
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One of my friends is getting married next week, I'll send him the link to this thread.

By thee way, given an option between:
1. Living in with your girlfriend and not get married, and
2. Get married and not live with your wife,

which one would you choose?

Hint: There is just ONE correct answer.
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Old June 23, 2013, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted by sum_1
one of my friends is getting married next week, i'll send him the link to this thread.

by thee way, given an option between:
1. Living in with your girlfriend and not get married, and
2. Get married and not live with your wife,

which one would you choose?

Hint: There is just one correct answer.
one..............
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Old June 23, 2013, 02:04 AM
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one..............
Try again

It's not the 'letter e' puzzle.
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Old June 23, 2013, 02:05 AM
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two........................
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Old June 23, 2013, 02:08 AM
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two........................
Nope, Its BOTH 1 and 2.
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Old June 23, 2013, 02:11 AM
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How can something be both 1 and 2?

Edit: okay it's late i am slow..i get it... cheat on wife, taitoh?
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Old June 23, 2013, 02:15 AM
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How can something be both 1 and 2?
Why not? I can get married and live with my girlfriend. Though I didn't necessarily mean 1 and 2 both at the same time. Right now I prefer option 1, but who knows after marriage I might well prefer option 2, even more so if I marry my current girlfriend.
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