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Old October 7, 2013, 08:42 AM
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Default The BC guide to Wedding

1 - Registry
This is the day when a Mullah asks you to fill in a form and gets you and your wife to sign it and also when shakhkhis are present.
Mullah charge - Tk 5,000
You are also married according to Bangladeshi law after this ceremony

2 - Meyer gaye holud
Your wife's gaye holud happens before yours. And, you don't get to go to it!
You buy gaye holud saree , sweets, mehendi, holud , rakhi, etc. for your wife
Cost - Tk ?

3 - Cheler gaye holud
It's your gaye holud day. You can have it in a community centre or the roof. Food, decoration, music and stage decoration are all required.
Your wife's side will bring your gaye holud panjabi-payjama and any gifts for you
Cost - Tk ?

4 - Wedding day
Nikah also happens on this day. You are Islamically married after Nikah. This is when you rent a community hall , all the guests come from both sides, you rent cars, have food , etc.
Do not hire so called professional photographers. They use old DV camcorders and DV tape. Get a cousin or a friend to record your wedding / gaye holuds with your own HD camcorder. They also bother you too much while they take photos of you from all angles and light you up.
Cost - Tk ?

5 - Bou vaat
Cost - Tk ?


If you want to get married, you need to ensure you have Tk 20 lakhs minimum to cover everything.

Feel free to pitch in, married members
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Old October 7, 2013, 08:45 AM
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Bou Vaat wedding er aagey hoi jantamna
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Old October 7, 2013, 08:46 AM
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1 - Registry
This is the day when a Mullah asks you to fill in a form and gets you and your wife to sign it and also when shakhkhis are present.
Mullah charge - Tk 5,000
You are also married according to Bangladeshi law after this ceremony

2 - Meyer gaye holud
Your wife's gaye holud happens before yours. And, you don't get to go to it!
You buy gaye holud saree , sweets, mehendi, holud , rakhi, etc. for your wife
Cost - Tk ?

3 - Cheler gaye holud
It's your gaye holud day. You can have it in a community centre or the roof. Food, decoration, music and stage decoration are all required.
Your wife's side will bring your gaye holud panjabi-payjama and any gifts for you
Cost - Tk ?

4 - Bou vaat
Cost - Tk ?

5 - Wedding day
Nikah also happens on this day. You are Islamically married after Nikah. This is when you rent a community hall , all the guests come from both sides, you rent cars, have food , etc.
Do not hire so called professional photographers. They use old DV camcorders and DV tape. Get a cousin or a friend to record your wedding / gaye holuds with your own HD camcorder. They also bother you too much while they take photos of you from all angles and light you up.
Cost - Tk ?

If you want to get married, you need to ensure you have Tk 20 lakhs minimum to cover everything.
Whom did you hire? AFAIK, wedding photography/cinematography has improved drastically in Bangladesh.
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Old October 7, 2013, 08:47 AM
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Old October 7, 2013, 09:04 AM
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You need professional, as we say, "videoman". Back in the days there used to videoman with a light assistant. That guy would put a 1000000 volt light in your face and people would sweat and the bride makeup would melt. But the best part was editing. One would be master print and the other with songs. Aaj ei dintake when jamai bou sits together, some sad song when bou cries before leaving and poor jamai stands in the side and many many more. Plus the animation.
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Old October 7, 2013, 09:06 AM
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Bou Vaat wedding er aagey hoi jantamna
Doh! Thanks, corrected

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Whom did you hire? AFAIK, wedding photography/cinematography has improved drastically in Bangladesh.
Paid Tk 16,000. Video quality was baaaad and too much Powerpoint transition like effects.
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Old October 7, 2013, 10:32 AM
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If you want to get married, you need to ensure you have Tk 20 lakhs minimum to cover everything.
The costs are all contiguous to marriage ceremony, but what will happen after the marriage? honeymoon + life style expense won't it also increase? so minimum 20L won't be the case.

Well, i don't understand the purpose/ritual of gaye holud, as if rubbing turmeric once will make us fair. how did you like your gaye holud, (everyone rubbing-eating so much sweets)
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Old October 7, 2013, 12:48 PM
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Thow did you like your gaye holud, (everyone rubbing-eating so much sweets)
Didn't make me fair! I had so much mishti, I don't like mishti anymore like I used to.
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Old October 7, 2013, 08:12 PM
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Registry - 15,000 (low key private event)
Holud1. - 35,000 (small group to bride's house with sari and other stuff)
Holud2. - 50,000 (can be done at home roof top)
Wedding- 100,000 (can be done at home)
Bou vaat- 150,000 (community center)
Contingency 50,000
...............................
Total 400,000
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Old October 8, 2013, 07:05 AM
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A timely thread. Keep updating folks
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Old October 8, 2013, 07:30 AM
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wedding thread with no idumb...eta to hoy na... it's like wedding cake with no meat on top
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