Man you have the answer to your problem. You want a pretty girl but the problem you are having:
21-22 y pretty girls are booked, they marry their boyfriend only to get divorce 2 years later. This is where you come in. when they are 25 and divorced yet still pretty, they would be willing to marry a douche like you without knowing that you are a douche...There!!
How superficial can you be? This is what I think. I think you need to change the way you see life and you see other people. Don't over generalize, appreciate individuality, acknowledge there are many ways to live..
Man you accuse girls that don't wanna move abroad with you to have boxed thinking... look at your thinking? Why the hell would life abroad be "better"? Happiness, enjoyment in life is under rated.
Driving a bmw at 100 mph at german autobahn with a drunk girl might be happiness for a day but being with the right person, raising cows in village can be happiness for life. Maybe that's what the girl wants...happiness instead of being a beautiful slave to you abroad...
Or let's talk business: A girl that you want, 22 F, beautiful, family oriented, never had a bf, devoted and would not divorce no matter what.... now this is a perfect girl. EVERYBODY IN THE WORLD wants her. Why should she go for you?? what do you bring in the table?
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Originally Posted by iDumb
let's talk business: A girl that you want, 22 F, beautiful, family oriented, never had a bf, devoted and would not divorce no matter what.... now this is a perfect girl. EVERYBODY IN THE WORLD wants her. Why should she go for you?? what do you bring in the table?
please please crisis, don't tell me, the only thing you bring on the table is an American Passport. Worse a dubai passport.... You are in deep crisis..
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Driving a bmw at 100 mph at german autobahn with a drunk girl might be happiness for a day but being with the right person, raising cows in village can be happiness for life. Maybe that's what the girl wants...happiness instead of being a beautiful slave to you abroad...
idumb man, you kill me!
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You sound like one of those guys who go to BD and expect girls to be all over you just because you are from 'Bidesh', and have a 'Bideshi' Passport.
And what is wrong with not so pretty girls having high expectation? Everyone wants what's best for them, if she thinks SRK is the best thing for her, who are you to say anything?
Girls are becoming too career minded? What you from the Stone Age or something?
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Originally Posted by Crisis
iDumb, this will be the last time I want to see your posts here.
You want a lot of things, but many are not happening. You exposed yourself more than you should have but I enjoyed it.
Having said that, did u just edit this post of yours? I could have sworn you gave me the "asif the man rahman" seal of "koi din por por". That's a first for me here.
Man before you go out all on me, read your original post again.... and tell me if it's not a shamelessly SEXIST post? THe thing is, when I write something sexist, it's usually tongue-in-cheek and some people get it some don't. You my friend is serious!!.
and if I may bring the board rules: Being sexist, not sexy (i am sure u are very sexy as well), is instant ban.
Originally Posted by Crisis
Yes, I did. After looking at 7 girls over 10 days, only 1 seems the best and Inshallah engagement and wedding will be in Feb/March
Thank you.
Congratulations man!!. Marriage is a big step. All that other posts aside. THis is serious. I hope you many happiness.
Originally Posted by simon
I learned something pom this thread.
d'après Crisis bai
labh marriz= divorce in BD.
so labh someone and marry some one other.
I like the way you think simon. I should have done that. My divorce is knocking at the door because I am simply a victim of statistics. Pongtami that i did with the kb (kajer bua) had nothing to do with it.
But if you have so many complains about a middle class family and about deshi girls than why merry a girl from back home or live with them? just get one from here in UK
agree with you one part where you mentions about kajer bhau's
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agree with you one part where you mentions about kajer bhau's
what's wrong with kajer bua? Don't be hating. It's a big part of our labor market. It's all about affordibility. You can have maid in the developed world too if you are wealthy like that. In BD, labor is cheap, so even lower middle class families can afford to hire them. Its simply economics.
Now, exploitation, that's a whole different moral and ethics debate. But for the time being, I support hiring beautiful maids....:p
Originally Posted by iDumb
what's wrong with kajer bua? Don't be hating. It's a big part of our labor market. It's all about affordibility. You can have maid in the developed world too if you are wealthy like that. In BD, labor is cheap, so even lower middle class families can afford to hire them. Its simply economics.
Now, exploitation, that's a whole different moral and ethics debate. But for the time being, I support hiring beautiful maids....:p
Good post iDumb. Can you imagine what will happen If we all get rid of kajer bhua in Bangladesh. Who is going to feed those family ?
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Hahaha...What a thread. Idumb bro you are just too good
Crisis bhai, Divorce can also knock on your door even if you marry a BD girl living in foreign land. You can't control this.
BD girls don't cook. So why don't you cook for her bro? It won't make you less of a man. Besides girls find a man sexy who knows how to cook..
BD girls are too career oriented. I share Ajfar's sentiment on this.. Why shouldn't they? Wish my wife brings more money than me. I would gladly quit my job and live a masti life.
But happy that you found a girl to marry. She must have all the qualifications that you seek in a desi girl. Lucky you. Congrats bro
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