The Positivity Thread

[aklemalp]

I wanted to write something good, something that would take my mind off the problems which I have encountered over the past 24 hours. Problems which I have caused by my own ignorance.

I have no time to explain what it was...

There are some things in life we take for granted, things that are so dear to us that we are blinded by its significance. The mind thinks one thing, the heart thinks another. But there is one constant though: both are influenced by the same thing. The crisp reality of it makes you feel ecstatic. Jumping for joy. A desire to hug someone. Tell someone how you feel about them.

But, you feel this way and the recipient of your hug feels the opposite. Why do you want to hug in the first place? Because there is love, there is happiness, there is joy..., all amalgamated to shine through that smile of yours. You think that it is worth it.

But there is disappointment.


To be continued...

[iDumb]

sounds like you got dumped. It happens. Move on.

life is too short...

[DinRaat.]

Originally Posted by iDumb
sounds like you got dumped. It happens. Move on.

life is too short...

have an affair.

[aklemalp]

Originally Posted by iDumb
sounds like you got dumped. It happens. Move on.

life is too short...

No, nothing like that.

[Roy_1]

Offtopic: I hate being hugged by guys, desi people by and large do not understand the concept of personal space. If I am sad and pissed you better stay away from me and let me deal with it my way, if you come and hug me you will get your butt kicked, my friends learned that the hard way

[Fazal]

...during periods?

[DinRaat.]

How about during a divorce, this thread will be very useful.

I need to know how to keep my possessions.

[DinRaat.]

Originally Posted by aklemalp
No, nothing like that.

Denial is the first step of getting through a break up.

[Roy_1]

Originally Posted by Fazal
...during periods?

?????????

[DinRaat.]

Originally Posted by Roy_1
?????????

Side effects of periods include mood swings.

Don't ask how I know that.

[Roy_1]

Originally Posted by DinRaat.
Denial is the first step of getting through a break up.

Break ups are hard man, it sometimes leaves deep psychological scars, I never had to go through this thank God, but I have seen what it does to people.

[DinRaat.]

To deal with this I suggest Aklemalp to get into yoga, or a nurumassage.

Heck he might even get a happy ending.

[Fazal]

Nah.... only first time its hard... after that you will get used to it. It will be like daal bhat.

[Roy_1]

Originally Posted by DinRaat.
Side effects of periods include mood swings.

Don't ask how I know that.

I know man, everyone knows that, just wanted to know where is Fazal coming from.

[DinRaat.]

I can see postive vibes coming from this thread already. My spider senses are tingling.

[aklemalp]

Good news fella

[iDumb]

Originally Posted by Roy_1
Offtopic: I hate being hugged by guys, desi people by and large do not understand the concept of personal space. If I am sad and pissed you better stay away from me and let me deal with it my way, if you come and hug me you will get your butt kicked, my friends learned that the hard way

Are you fat ? There are few guys I know who don't like hug from another guy ... I think it says a lot about the guy who doesn't like it ...

Ok the word is not like ... a real secured man shouldn't feel uncomfortable getting a hug from another guy ...

Regarding personal space I think it's more appropriate when a guy hugs a woman as a greeting /goodbye ..if the relationship is not close ....I find those guys very creepy .

There is handshake ..there is slight head bowing .. there are subtle respectful touch .... but some guys with their full on hug ..with a woman they know by proxy ... annoying as hell

[Roy_1]

Originally Posted by DinRaat.
I can see postive vibes coming from this thread already. My spider senses are tingling.

Okay, now stop crawling on that wall

[iDumb]

Originally Posted by aklemalp
Good news fella

She finally pretending to like your hug ? Don't hug ppl who aren't receptive lol


Btw din raat I am starting to enjoy your one liners ...keep it up

[aklemalp]

Originally Posted by DinRaat.
Denial is the first step of getting through a break up.

No break up man.

[DinRaat.]

Originally Posted by iDumb
Are you fat ? There are few guys I know who don't like hug from another guy ... I think it says a lot about the guy who doesn't like it ...

Ok the word is not like ... a real secured man shouldn't feel uncomfortable getting a hug from another guy ...

Regarding personal space I think it's more appropriate analogy if a guy hugs a woman as a greeting /goodbye ..if the relationship is not close ....I find those guys very creepy .

There is handshake ..there is slight head bowing .. there are subtle respectful touch .... but some guys with their full on hug ..with a woman they know by proxy ... annoying as hell

O really, I hate it when your walking in the streets and a stranger goes in the same direction as you causing confusion

#AwkwardStreetMoments

[DinRaat.]

Originally Posted by aklemalp
No break up man.

Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

[aklemalp]

Originally Posted by iDumb
She finally pretending to like your hug ? Don't hug ppl who aren't receptive lol


Btw din raat I am starting to enjoy your one liners ...keep it up

No hugging, it was just an analogy to something far more significant

[aklemalp]

Originally Posted by DinRaat.
Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

What the hell dude? I don't believe in those guys

We need more positivity, not advice from those scamps and money-grabbers

[iDumb]

Originally Posted by DinRaat.
Are you sure, I can recommend you to a good Hindu Astrologist that can cure impotency and sexual relationships.

Don't get carried away ... I like the clever one liners not the disgusting / and visibly insulting ones ...

Aklemalp is trying to Say something serious ... don't get embarrassed