Originally Posted by Wakidul
lol, this is riduclous. As fans we may not like his attidude towards cricket and playing style. However, there is no right for us to talk about his personal life. This is just going a step too far. At the end of the day I believe I cannot play better then Ashraful, so why should I critise people that I know are better than me. That's not fair.
And also note that Mashrafee Mortaza had got married a few years back, but can you see any significant improvement in him. The answer is "No". I think the BCB should drop him as captain and consider an average player as captain. Say if Aftab Ahmed comes back, then maybe him. Atab's matured quite a bit, from ICL etc....
You lost me when you said Aftab can be an option for captaincy. I mean are you kidding or seriously kidding?
May be, but it will probably ruin some poor girl's life. Ever thought of it from that prespective? I wouldn't want my sister or daughter to be married to a fool like that.
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Originally Posted by rifat
i believe his marriage wil cure his hot headedness and lack of vision, it will make him more mature and responsible
আছি, রিফাত ভাইয়ের এই প্রস্তাবের সঙ্গে পুরাপুরি একমত।
বিসির ভাই এবং বোনেরা যারা এখনও বিবাহ করেন নাই অথচ বিবাহের বয়স দড়ি দিয়ে টেনে ধরে রাখতে পারছেন না তারা জরুরী ভিত্তিতে বিবাহ করে নেন। এই ক্ষেত্রে আপনার পড়তে পারেন "আজকে হিমুর বিয়ে" এই কিতাব খানি।
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Tough childhood leads to low self-esteem. Deal with that low self-esteem by projecting on to others while developing an inflated ego. Reinforce and fortify that inflated ego by wallowing in delusions of grandeur, gadha fans like yours truly add considerable fuel to that fire. As an integral part of that delusion, escape responsibility and blame others for failure. In some cases, learn to please yourself by berating others.
Choices: -
1) Overcome denial and seek therapy and appropriate meds.
2) Perceive marriage to a taller woman and bouer dhatani as easier alternatives and destroy what's left of your so called cricket.
I wonder what he has in store for us. My guess? MORE.OF.THE.SAME.
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Lets have a dramatic scene of Ashraful'e first post marriage night: :P
বউঃ আপনার কেমন লাগতেছে আমাকে বিয়ে করে?
আশরাফুলঃ faaste ball I would like to thank Allah.....yeea We did not batted(!) gud...our boller(!) gives many runs..eea eea (continuous head shaking)....I batted guddd.....my shot was correct...but I was out...ea ea ( head shaking continues....)
What for??? If Ash had one ounce of manhood, he would have conceded that it is his (just not his "top order") failure is causing the dismal batting display and he is not leading by examples. On second thought, it may have something. He will surely not blame his "bottom order" if he fails to bring on many more little Ash's. That will be a change.
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Originally Posted by Sohel NR
This is what happens: -
Tough childhood leads to low self-esteem. Deal with that low self-esteem by projecting on to others while developing an inflated ego. Reinforce and fortify that inflated ego by wallowing in delusions of grandeur, gadha fans like yours truly add considerable fuel to that fire. As an integral part of that delusion, escape responsibility and blame others for failure. In some cases, learn to please yourself by berating others.
Choices: -
1) Overcome denial and seek therapy and appropriate meds.
2) Perceive marriage to a taller woman and bouer dhatani as easier alternatives and destroy what's left of your so called cricket.
I wonder what he has in store for us. My guess? MORE.OF.THE.SAME.
this post was either referring to me or Ashraful or a combo of both...
Originally Posted by rifat
this post was either referring to me or Ashraful or a combo of both...
Not you ...
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He will marry after retirement to have a young cute wife in old age Now it's time to earn money for that time. Very good plnning by BD captain on and off the field.
Currently he is a celebrity, if milk is available in the market, why should he buy a cow.
Originally Posted by LateCut
What for??? If Ash had one ounce of manhood, he would have conceded that it is his (just not his "top order") failure is causing the dismal batting display and he is not leading by examples. On second thought, it may have something. He will surely not blame his "bottom order" if he fails to bring on many more little Ash's. That will be a change.
You missed the middle order where he preferred to play natural shots.
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I agree. There are lots of example in sports world that a sportsman started better performing after marriage. In cricket, Steve Waugh, Ricky Ponting etc.
But in Bangladesh it is the complete opposite (Shahriar Nafees, Nafees Iqbal etc.). After all I want Ashraful should get married as early as possible.